The vast majority of men today are too afraid of approaching women that they like on the street, or any other location for that matter while being sober. Today, I'll tell you what you must do to get better at approaching women and how you can get over this very irrational fear of approach.
Okay, how do I do it?
Do it often.
As Tony Robbins said: "Repitition is the mother of skill" Anything that you do often, you will become better at. Guaranteed. Take an hour or 2 out of your week and go talk to as many women as possible. A mall is good for this. After doing this for a little while, your fear will quickly disappear and you will be able to talk to any beautiful woman!
But wait, give me some tips!
Okay, okay.
Before I give you some tips, you must understand that the majority of women WILL reject you. Especially when you're starting out. So, please, do not get disheartened after a few rejections.
Here are some tips:
A good opener is to make sure you make your intentions clear so you make them feel at ease more. Say something like "Hey, this is random, but I saw you and thought you were so beautiful that I had to come and say hi. What's your name?" Saying something like this will make your intentions clear so the woman knows you have no hidden agenda.
Don't be serious. Be funny. Tell her jokes, tease her, make fun of her. Nobody likes a clown though, so don't overdo this!
Show that you're confident. Walk with your back straight and shoulders back and always maintain strong eye contact. Never look away!
After 2-10 minutes of banter, teasing, flirting you either want to ask for her number or ask her out for a date. If you're just starting out, going for the number is fine as it's less risky. However, if you have balls ask her out! If you want her number after a nice conversation just simply say something like "I gotta go now, but I'd love to talk more. What's your number?" or if you want to ask her out simply say something like: "I feel a really good connection between us. I'd love to see you again. When are you free to meet up for a drink?" That's all there is to it. No magic words, just simple, direct and straight to the point. Women love direct men.
But I'm not good looking enough!
Nonsense. Women care about confidence the most. Yes, looks do matter, but I guarantee you that you will find at least 2 women that will think you're awesome after 100 approaches! Yes, even the 9/10's and 10/10's! Try it!
Although this article is a great starting point, I recommend you take a look at my 2 other articles. One of the articles includes a link to a free book that I highly recommend for pickup, dating and relationships!
The Top 5 Worst Mistakes Men Make When Talking to Women and How to Correct these Mistakes
Thanks for reading!