It definitely has its good and bad points! I am growing to like it more now that I stopped focusing on up votes and followers and just started doing my own thing my own way!! I don't want a bunch of ghost followers and random people that I have nothing in common with anyway to just have the numbers!! I am focused now on just writing more articles that make me happy and hopefully can teach more people how to lead a fitness lifestyle!! I too am a mother of three so I can understand how crazy things can get. Just do what you can when you can, and do what makes you feel good without expectation of anything but getting it out of your head! It may take a while but you will find your tribe sooner or later!