I totally agree with you that it's not about the first Dapp anymore. There are sooo many new ones coming out just about every day. One of the things I love about the blockchain is the excitement and energy that seems to be growing as more and more people find their footing and try new ideas and new ways of doing things when they find themselves unchained from the corp run tried and true conventional net.
The sense of finding a home among the various communities is a wonderful thing. At one time the conventional net had that. Unfortunately, it didn't last long until communities became monetized. Now they are more of an echo chamber silo, dedicated to "influencers" and manipulation than a real and true community like you can find all over the blockchains.
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