Premature Ejaculation!
Last night, when I showed my friend here in Onipan the title of this article, at first he looked at me in awe and then busted into laughter.
Wait.
Before you bring down my head and slice it like yam, I do not mean what you thought. Still, I do. Follow me to the end to see.
What is a premature ejaculation?
"Stupid question", you said.
Contrary to your thought, premature ejaculation, in this context, is dying before your death.
The date is 24th January 2018 and some people, like me, had either forgotten, abandoned or given up their goals, resolutions, and plans for the year. Poor you. Ejaculating prematurely.
Your case is not too different from a man who set out for a 10 days journey and after 2 days of being in wilderment, goes back home hopelessly.
Why won't you ejacualate prematurely?
Sexologist told us and I have particularly found it true, that foreplay plays a huge role in performing to the fullest. They said one of the very ways to prevent PE is to go 10-15 minutes having foreplay.
You only use foreplay intimately. You don't know you can apply it personally in your pursuit of your dream.
Did you engage in "foreplay" before going on your plans and aspirations for the year?
You don't know how?
Here is a list of your foreplay for your goals:
- Get a mentor or accountability partner.
- Write, read and re-read your goals every day.
- Seek help where necessary.
- Picture yourself having the success that comes with the goals
- Belong to like minds groups.
Are you getting my points?
Go read about successful people in your field and elsewhere and point out which of them that do not do any of the aforementioned "foreplay".
Wait.
It's not over yet if you had ejaculated prematurely. There is a way out to resuscitate yourself.
Sexologists, again, told us ways to re-awaken your manhood if you had disappointed yourself and your woman. Don't say I told you that having a light shower is one way to do the magic.
Here, retracing your steps and doing what you ought to do at the beginning does the resuscitation.
Read and re-read your goals daily. What this does is immeasurable. If you don't write your goals, then you begin by writing it first.
Get an accountability partner.
Don't be ashamed to seek help where needed.
Belong to like mind groups.
Now that you have had foreplay, go on and smash your goals.
Let me then tell you one of my secrets.
Oh! So you think I am directing this to you reading this all the while?
Well, Maybe.
Mistake.
I am preaching to myself. But it can be useful to you too. So I decided to make it public.
I am not a perfectionist.
One simple act before the actual acts can save a lot of had I known.
Do the needful. Don't ejaculate, prematurely!
Abolore Kazeem