Hi this is the third part of, "Finding Your True Love Using 7 Powerful Law of Attraction Techniques"
Asking for what you want
Now you know what you want in your soul mate, you need to ask for it. Be as detailed as possible. The universe loves specifics. If you just say I would like a partner, you will get one, but they may not have the traits or qualities you would wish your partner to have or treat you in the way that you want to be treated.
So is it just that simple? Yes, but there are different methods you can use to ask.
You could say out allow exactly what qualities you would like in your soul mate. For example, “I want a man that respects me, treats me well, is faithful to me, supports me with my dreams, has a great sense of humor, is adventurous.” Or, “I want a woman that gets on well with my family and friends, that supports me, respects me, is fun to be around.”
You could also write down exactly what you have said out allowed. You must remember that it has to be all positive do not speak or write down anything negative, for example, “I want someone that will not cheat on me.” The universe only hears the word cheat and not the rest of the sentence where you are saying what you don’t want. The universe also loves specific, how can the universe give you what you want when you don’t know what you want.
Vision Boards
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Another way of asking the universe for what you want is to create a vision board. This board is not just about asking for what you want, but it is also about raising your energy vibrations to be in alignment with accepting a new love into your life. Make sure that your vision board also reflects how you would like to feel. For example, happy, joyous and loved.
If you have someone specific in mind and you have a photograph of them put this on your vision board, or put their name on the board. If you don’t know who you want to attract nor want to put a picture of that particular person because you find it embarrassing, use a collage of all the things that make you feel great and think beautiful thoughts that your soul mate is just waiting for you. You could put pictures of where you would like to go on your dates, romantic settings, couples kissing, romantic images like love hearts, things you would like to do together. Powerful quotes, like, “you are the one that fulfils me and compliments me on my desires.”
Visualization
Another method to use is visualizing your goal as if it has already happened. Visualize spending time with your soul mate. Visualize how you met, you can be telling a story to someone else about how you met, giving great detail, like how the room was lit, the smells, did you bump into each other, the smiles you gave each other, what was said in that first greeting. Then you can take it further, by visualizing living in the same house, waking up together, cooking together, asking how each other days have been. Sharing a bottle of wine, while out on a date at your favorite restaurant.
Remember that all this visualization must be positive, you are raising your energy vibrations to be in alignment with your soul mate.
When you visualize, you need to be in a peaceful, comfortable place. You don’t want to be too hot or too cold. You have to get into your visualization, and you have to be able to see it, feel it as if it is happening right now. Maybe play some music that puts you in a great mood, reminds you of a place you like to spend time with your soul mate in. Only visualize when you want to, you don’t have to plan to do it every day, which then makes it feel like it is a chore, but the more you do it, the better you are at raising your energy vibrations to be in a positive alignment with your soul mate.
Visualization is about having fun; it’s about feeling really good with everything. Say you are visualizing living with your partner, but you often get into arguments, see what is causing the quarrels and change the script. These arguments usually mean that there's still something you are uncertain about, maybe you want a soul mate, but don’t want the hassle of living with them. This is your visualization and your life you are changing with the power of the Law of Attraction.
The more you visualize, the more you can see everything that you want in a partner, and you no longer have conflicting messages coming through, the quicker you will find that you're attracting what you want, and your soul mate will appear.
So far you have made a list of all the qualities you desire in your perfect soul mate, you have created your vision board that makes you feel great about having your soul mate. You practice visualizing spending joyous time with your soul mate. The key to all of this is that you must believe that it is already happening now. You need to believe that your soul mate is already here and is already in your life. If you feel that they are not, it will take some time for them to arrive in your life. You may feel on a conscious level they are here, but still, they haven’t arrived this could be because you have deeper issues that are blocking you from believing that your soul mate is here, or that you deserve your perfect soul mate.
Homework
Do the exercise yourself:
- Simply ask for your perfect soul mate to arrive stating all the qualities you want.
- Create a Vision Board.
- Visualize yourself with your perfect partner and lovely surroundings.
Tomorrow I will talk about the importance of loving yourself.
If you missed the previous posts:
Finding Your True Love Using 7 Powerful Law of Attraction Techniques. Part 1: Click here
Finding Your True Love Using 7 Powerful Law of Attraction Techniques. Part 2: Click here
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Kerie
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