You don't lose anything by voting or commenting. In fact, you earn a little steem power by doing these things. Steem power detetmines how influential your votes are. The steem & steem dollars in your account are liquid funds that you can use like money. They can be traded for national currencies like dollars or euros.
What's in your account is what you've earned by creating value for steemit.
RE: Could someone explain Steem to me like I am a three year old?