I want to write this article with the title of a novel that I have read but claiming the opposite, that great love does not wear bridal dresses. Such a topic is one of the most common ones, discussed everywhere: in work, in our social circles, or even in social networks.
Someone will be caught up in cases where love has not triumphed. Such cases are full. Perhaps your case that reads this writing is such. I write this because, in the period of dictatorship, most of the marriages were made with matchmaking. If you belong to that period, you may have suffered this on your skin. She was ashamed to express love and above all, the latter being overwhelmed by the bad name (stains in the biography) that could have the family of the person you like.
From such marriages, I have noticed that we have young people who do not know how to love or do not know how to express love. I'm sorry to say it, but when you do not see parents who did not even know true love, you do not have how to take an ideal example when it comes to love. Often such persons are opposed not only to the existence of true love, but also to its finalization by marriage. You may think that things have changed for good and that the family example now represents a very small percentage of impact on this subject. It's not true. With the development of technology, young people are thrilled with virtual communication and just as much likes the other person they communicate, as well as disappointed when they meet it live. Normally, in such cases, not only can we not talk about love with a happy ending, nor about its existence.
I want everyone to think positively when it comes to such an emotion so important to everyone's existence. Do not be influenced by the stars of the hollywood (Brad Pitt's separation with Angelina Jolie), because they combine more interest in fame and attention than love. Do not even leave the cliché that we hear in everyday life. "Others want. Others love us. With others we end up. " They are not real at all. There are many couples of daily life that have been together for years and live equally happy as in the beginning of their relationship.
Do not take for example neither a love that is not done properly. Not every story is the same and most likely, it has failed because of your lack of courage. If you would dare to fight against those who forbid your relationship, if you were to fight together for your love, and above all, if your love was strong enough, the time and situations could not snap it. I give you a very real case of a relative. The family objected to her relationship with a boy whose family had bad names over the years (these situations are frequent, especially in rural areas). The end was that she escaped from her family and she already has two children with her husband she wanted. Over time, even the situations between the two families calmed down and now everything goes well.
If there was no courage on both sides, today they would not be together, and both would agree unanimously that "Love does not exist", or they will admit that it does not know the happy ending. Here is the mistake. Most of us dare to deny something simply because of the mistakes he or she has done, or a relative he takes for example when it comes to the subject. Adding to this part the fact that many people are related to boasting in society, or that love equates to the animal instinct of sexual relations, then, for them, it is understood that love will not exist.
But I want everybody to realize that he has in his hand how he builds his / her life. Everyone has the opportunity to "have a chance ..." of his life, end up with "And they lived happily everlasting".
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