Many ladies find it hard to settle down with their desired man. Not because they are not desirable but may be for these reasons, most men draws back on them:
- BOSSY LADY : she has bossy character in her DNA. When a man first meets her, he might think this character trait is cute, for awhile. However, once he starts to feel like he is in grammar school being told what to do by his second grade teacher, he will give this woman her walking papers.
I once had a course mate like this when I was in Tertiary Institution, anytime she comes to class she wants everyone to notice her and pay homage to whatever she has to say.
If you by chance greet her, she response and gestures would depict she is in charge.It was not long some of us deliberately ignored her.Do u think if any guy among us desired her from afar will like to continue having discover such in her?
- A HEART GAME PLAYER ”: This woman thinks that being a game player will help her have a man. However, even though a man might be intrigued by a hard to get lady in the beginning, as soon as he decides that he is interested in her, all he wants is an honest and straight to the point sister.
If this woman is not straight forward in her dealings with a man, she will be shown a way out of the relationship every time.Some ladies are not ready to date a guy yet they keep collecting gifts from him, siffoning him and almost sucking him dry. Only to back out later.Some double date while some are not consenting to proposal and yet they want the guy to keep coming.crawling to them and begging for their hands in marriage.
.3. THE CHANGER ”: This woman is lurking everywhere. She is the type of woman many men are the most leery of. (Of course, there are some men who love this woman because of their own insecurities.)She claims that she loves her guy just the way he is, but little by little, she chips away just everything about him.
First, it’s his wardrobe, then it’s his taste in music. At other time, his friends and family.
However, when she gets to his friends and his hobbies, she is usually complaining and customising him to herself, coming from the school of thought of 'me and my man'. Hello, do u know he has known others before knowing you? So why will you shot him out of his world? Be careful!
- A “Suspiciously Jealous Lady” : This woman is on edge all the time because she is very distrusting.
Many times, she has been burnt in the past, so she is on guard for anything that looks or feels wrong.
When a man first meets this woman, he sees her as a damsel in distress and wants to reassure her that he is nothing like that guy in her past. However, once she accuses him one too many times, he will have no choice to leave her because he can’t go through his life being prosecuted for somebody else’s crimes ,pls ma heal up from your past and free yourself from trust issues. God is concerned about who you marry, as long as you are His and you had committed things into his hands, he will handle it all for u. 'Affliction will not rise second time' 'whatever is committed into his hands, he is able to keep'. Trust God more! Ok?
- Miss “I Live For You And I Have Nothing Else Going On” :This woman is very difficult for a man to date, let alone marry.
At first, he is flattered that she is so into him, but very quickly, he feels overwhelmed and suffocated by her.
As a woman, you must have something going on in your own life so that you are not just waiting by the door for him to come home. Get a life! Discover your God given purpose and the reason God is bringing you into the mans life. You are given to the man because you are needed in his life not cos you are wanted! You should be an addition, not a burden on him. You should be an asset not his liability. So get a life for yourself instead of choking him!
- Miss “I Speak To My Mother Five Times A Day About Everything ”: This woman has her mother on speed dial and can’t seem to make a decision or do anything without getting her opinion.
When a guy first meets her, he thinks it’s nice that she is so close to her family, but soon, he finds it to be way too much.
A man just doesn’t want to have to ask her mother’s permission about things in his life.
- Miss Professional Gossip :
This woman is like a human Page Six. She loves to gossip and talk about other people and she loves to hear things about other people as well.
Initially when a guy meets her, he might be entertained by her anecdotes but eventually, he begins to wonder what she is saying behind his back.
- Miss “Unsatisfied”: This one needs to be at least as good as everyone else she knows.
She is constantly talking about what the other people do and what the other people have.
This places a lot of undue pressure on her man and eventually, he just gets fed up that she can’t appreciate what they have instead of wishing she was someone else.
Ladies, can you find where you belong here? If yes, pls prayerfully make adjustment.
If none, congrats. May be God is still adding more virtues into you to get u more equipped for your KING!
All of us together are work-in -progress. We will be His best once we yield to his correction !
