I think some of the applications listed over at steemtools.com might allow you to sort your feed and followers a bit more. Also check out busy.org as a more 'follower' focused interface.
NEVER look at the main trending page (unless your a sociologist doing analysis) is my strategy for dealing with this platform. Only your feed.
Many of these ideas are sensible. and many others sometimes post roadmap posts, look out for those and add them in.
RE: Improvements To SteemIt (To Make Browsing Easier)