It certainly isn't hardwired into people in general to want to conquer other people. Only a few people in this world actually want to personally control other people, and they already do. They are elected by the people who want to indirectly control other people. None of that is hardwired into humans though. It's a learned behavior that people end up adopting because they are surrounded by it everyday in the current system we have. Most anarchists believe that anarchy is something people will eventually evolve into. We have to make government obsolete and replace the things people want a government to provide. We are doing that already to some extent with crypto-currencies and other technology. You know it was two anarchists that created Steemit right?