First of all dear steemers I want to apologize for creatinIntroduceyourselfg two terribly useless post recently. I know I am quite new to this platform and blogging in general and the success is not coming over night, but even with the slight difference of the outcome of my previous posts, it is easy to notice that quality content is important. With this I want to promise you my dear followers that I will create unique post from now on. I will not close my blog in a certain area, I will write about everything.
Based on the experience with "empty" posts and conversations I had the last couple of days with different people I would like to talk about self-confidence and the so called "key to success".
First of all lets try to define self-confidence. Self-confidence is you thinking of yourself as a hunter killer. Self-confidence is you believing when others don't, It is you standing up after every bad moment and keeping fighting.
Lets be honest, life is a game and the rules of that game are the rules of the jungle. People are trustless, arrogant and selfish. In our society there are really two type of people.
Type one are the real hunter killers - people who don't care about others. yes they might care about family, but the real point in their life is to smack to the ground everybody they can. People that will use you till they can, and then they will remove you from their life. So basically these people more or less realized the life we are living, and they prefer and work for being on the top.
Type two are the smacked to the ground people. These people are not necessarily bad people! A lot of people nowadays still believe in clean relationship in trust and loyalty. But loyalty should be expressed t yourself only, with the only reason that others will not appreciate it. Those people most likely end up in life, being on the end of the waiting list for a social housing, people accepting the salary they have, people without goals.
Remember, we are our choices. Who we are, is who we want to be. If you honestly want something, you should show a lot of patience and build yourself from early age. Its not like you wake up and you think: "Oh, today I'm gonna be a hustler", because what will happen is that the first person with bigger self-confidence you get in touch with will break you in to little pieces.
Remember, there is nothing bad to sit on the coach at the end of the day. There is nothing wrong in sitting on coach all weekend long, but be productive. One of the biggest goals of new generation is "Netflix and chill", and that can also be a goal. Therefore you need to work hard, be self-confident, fight your fears and go to the top. Only then you can allow yourself to have a break.
I will allow myself to quote one living legend John Mcafee. In one of his recent interviews with Peter from BiteSizeBitcoin https://twitter.com/bitesizebitcoin.
In the interview he says: Do what you love. Don't think of what will bring you money, because no matter how smart you are, eventually you will fail one day.
I can completely agree with what he says because that's one of the ways to gain self confidence. Doing what you love, will help you develop yourself in your strongest capabilities because what you love is not what you saw online, it is something inside you. Something that gives you inspiration.
Okay, I'm going to wrap this topic up and let you spend more time on what you love and achieving your goals.
Be smart, think about yourself. Think about your future, and don't let emotions control your life. Once you accept reality and let it go, then you can focus on yourself and really get to the level you want.
Get examples from people around you, don't follow other peoples path, chose your own. And remember, what applies to others does not apply to you. Be unique and find your strongest abilities and keep developing them.
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It was a real pleasure writing this post for you guys and girls and see you soon again !
Stay positive and hunt opportunities. They will not crow to you!