Despite appearances, almost all women aren’t down for casual sex.
They may say that they are to seem cool, aloof or non-needy, but in truth, sex for most women is an emotional act. It is near impossible for a woman to disconnect the physical act from the emotional connection and/or attachment that follows. And research has proven that after a certain period of continued physical intimacy, the woman’s body releases certain hormones that are related to nesting and reproduction.
Women like when men buy them things
Whether it’s a drink at the bar or a Tiffany’s necklace, buying them things (no matter how “unmaterialistic” we claim to be) will always put you in our good books.
Sometimes women just have to fake it
Most men have no idea how much time and focus it takes for women to have an orgasm Sometimes women heads just isn’t in the game and we don’t want to hurt your ego. Roll with it. Women remember everything, they don’t forget, the worse moments and also the good moments
Women need to be constantly reassured (strong point in marriage)
Women don’t care how much you hate it, but if men want to keep women around, tell them how much they mean to you. And tell them a lot. Otherwise they will ask you a lot.
Most women suffer from PMS symptoms
The sudden and dramatic drop of oestrogen before the period can result in heightened feelings of anxiety, vulnerability, neediness, and even depression. As a woman who’s battled with PMS for my entire adult life, I can honestly say that while I’m experienced enough now to recognize when my thoughts and feelings are being governed by my hormones, I still struggle not to be overcome by them. This may very well translate into irrational arguments or feelings of complete dismay. And then like magic, a day or two into the period, all her troubles will melt away…
Most women take longer to orgasm from sex than men do.
Some women mostly or only cum from clitoral stimulation, some women orgasm from penetration, and some women can cum any which-way. Cum-ing for a woman is not always as simple as it often is for men. If the woman is anxious, stressed or unrelaxed, she’ll unlikely be brought to orgasm. For a woman, so much of it is in her mind, and so if her mind isn’t there, she won’t get there.
Most women love foreplay and attention to detail.
The longer you draw out the kissing, touching, tickling and licking, the better the final prize! Also, many of us like sex to start soft and slow.
Women just want to feel validated, supported, and heard.
Women appreciate the little things. Believe it or not, when it comes to impressing them, you don’t have to go big or go home. This applies to all things, because what we’re really looking for is thoughtfulness. Kind words, meaningful touch, small acts of service- your love is best communicated in the details. When my husband walks in the door with a beautiful flower he picked along the way, it melts their heart more than 10 dozen roses ever could- because he thought of me in the most unexpected moment. The little things often say the most.
- Don’t mistake women tears for weakness. Men, as you learn to understand these tears, remember that they are not a sign of weakness- but a sign of strength. The strength to be real, vulnerable, and genuine. The strength to be passionate and compassionate, and the strength to actually feel.
We want to be your partner, not as mother.
Women have the unhealthy tendency of taking care of the men in their lives – and then resenting them. The truth is, they were made to nurture, but in marriage and in healthy relationships, that nurturing needs to be played out in the context of a give-and-take relationship. Women want to serve, yet they equally need to be served.
Women think a man’s most attractive quality- is his heart. No matter what other messages this world may feed you- don’t ever lose sight of this most important thing. Your faith, purity, character, honesty and integrity are more meaningful to any good woman than all else you could offer her.
Women will get irrational about things
This can range from pantyhose runs to a ruined pedicure, from pimples to pregnancy scares. Under no circumstances may you actually tell us we are being irrational. Trust us.
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