a couple months ago someone told me to "be who you want to be".
i have heard it a thousand times before but did not get it until he explained.
you can say your gonna, but until you do your just being who you are not what you wanna be, or who you wanna be.
so that is how i roll now.
sometimes it comes across rude but, "REALLY"!!!
to my point this is the best way to describe what he was saying.

""I am becoming the person I want to be. Each day, I work to make myself more the person I want to be."
this is what i tell my fiends to do when they post insanity.