Do you have many relational conflicts ?
Do you also have blocked friends on facebook ?
No lasting friend ...
Even if a family member can not ...
Wanting to be alone ...
Do you know someone like that? Is not it difficult to work, focus and enjoy when there are people who are enemies. We feel overwhelmed and shrinking our world because we have people who want to be avoided or those who do not want to see.
It's hard to live in anger. Not only is it difficult, sad and tiring too. Not bad angry. Anger is a normal human feeling. But to live in anger is another talk. When anger is not resolved, there is a problem.
Why are there people who live in anger? What is the effect of anger on a person?
I think this are some possible reasons:
They did bad thigs with their neighbors and did not apologize to the person who hurt him
He has many unresolved issues in his past.
He has difficulty moving on.
Can not forgive.
The people around him were stirred and convulsed.
It is customary and customary to be irritable.
It's a defense mechanism so he will not get hurt or hurt.
Her heart was soar and numb.
Living in anger is not brought by only by situations or circumstances but is based by CHOICE.
It says in the Bible (Ephesians 4:26), "In your anger, do not sin".
As I said earlier, it's not bad to be angry. But we need to be careful that in our expressing anger we will not sin.
When our anger is weakened and nurtured in our hearts, it becomes hateful and bitterness. We do not realize that our anger has been eaten by us gradually. There is anger in control over our lives. Everything we do is motivated by anger.
**Here's where we begin to break, not just our relationships but our own lives. We are thinking of evil against our neighbors, thinking of avoiding us, planning to destroy the lives of others and what else.
If we look at it, there is so much bad effect on anger, not just the people around us but ourselves. So if we continue to live in anger, not our enemies are losers and poor, but we are.**
We are losing and not. We will suffer from the consequences and negative effects of our indulgence and they are not. At the end of the day, we will repent, we are alone, we are miserable, we will be hurt.
So, until the time comes, let's rage our hearts and start living with love. Let our hearts forgive and forget. Life is too short, unfortunately if we die in anger.
