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Hey steemian happy Friday God bless we all and God bless steemit.
Here is my episode 2 on why people marry the wrong person
7. YOU DO NOT HAVE A CONSISTENTLY
POSITIVE EMOTIONAL CONNECTION
WITH EACH OTHER
A positive emotional connection does not
mean you are in love.
Five questions to evaluate if you have a
positive emotional connection:
1. Do I respect and admire this person?
2. Do I trust this person in every way and
feel I can rely on his or her judgment?
3. Do I feel totally safe with this person (like I
feel with my best friend)?
4. Do I truly care about this person and have
a desire to give to him or her?
5. Are we open and honest with each other
about our feelings and opinions?
Your greatest tool for measuring the quality
of the relationship is your feelings.
Principle: Never dismiss anything that
bothers you! Process everything that bother you.
8. YOU GET INVOLVED SEXUALLY TOO QUICKLY
Becoming intimate too soon can be self-
defeating because it creates confusion.
• It may create a false sense of commitment
and depth.
• It may block you from processing your
feelings which is soul-tie
• It may lead to overlooking problems that
should not be overlooked.
9.YOU CHOOSE SOMEONE WHO IS ABUSIVE
The definition of an abusive relationship is
one in which you are afraid to
express your feelings and opinions.
Other indicators:
• You don’t feel emotionally safe.
• You have to monitor what you say.
• You walk on egg shells around this
person.
• You don’t feel relaxed and don’t feel you
can be yourself.
• The person is demanding, controlling, or
communicates with anger and
criticism.
10. Never settle for: in this case go for what you want and never feel like all is going to be okay have some years what if it don't???
11. We work well together; we’re a good
team
Principle: You must be able to repair
breakdowns 100%, which means there is
no resentment or bad feelings left over.
One of the biggevsth mistakes people make is
to believe that marriage will heal or
fix their deep inner pain. In many cases,
marriage will only make the pain
greater and more unbearable!