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Man is a true learner in which he will always study the environment continuously either directly as information or as a stock he is adapting. And this learning begins with simple things when a child is small as when he learns to feel things, walk or talk. But most parents still do not understand that how we deal with this small time learning process is very meaningful for learning later in the day. In general is still often the process of learning at the time children received treatment response is less good. Whether they are learning to feel with their mouths, when they learn to walk, or we learn to talk that they do not yet understand they understand the meaning of the word.
When you begin to talk and ask questions, the answers are not satisfactory and even tend to hurt the curiosity of the child. this may be due to fatigue when tired or tired provides repeated explanations. Usually when children see new things at home and children tend to want to know more closely and hold it, but the response of adults around him even distanced the item for fear of damaging or injuring children. From the above explanation already exist that understand why children lazy to learn?
Then another case is there is a 9 year old boy, call it Toni. His parents complained that his son did not like learning and had received warnings from his teacher. But when Toni was asked about his hobby, he swiftly answered his hobby is football, and his favorite team is Arsenal. In fact he memorized all the core players and backup players. Who is the coach and his assistant, the player's back number, the anniversary date and the scorers list, the assists and league points and their sequence. Incredible is not it? This shows no problem with Toni's brain. The problem comes from another source.
Ok, seeing the case is obviously the problem open because Toni is stupid but there is no interest in learning the lesson. Of course this needs to be given the right response so as not to get resistance and can make the child spirit to learn. The first stage of improvement is from his parents first. For such a small child, parents play an important role in child growth and help to overcome the problem of children. Then communicate with love in every upbringing.
An education expert, Timothy Wibowo, gives some tips so that children can be diligent and easy to learn in school. Here are tips:
When the child comes home from school, ask what fun things that day. Automatically children will look for fun things in school and indirectly shape the mindset of children that school is a fun place.
When children are sleeping positive suggestions suggest that learning is fun. Learning as fun as playing or counting and memorizing is very easy. This is one form of hypnosleep positive in children.
Explain to the subject matter that is being worked on. Adjust the explanation with the child's material, for example by learning multiplication, then the child can count the number of his toy collection or calculate the price of the action figure in a supermarket and compare it with the price at another mall. Or if you are proficient in Japanese then watching anime does not need to use subtitle and can read the original comic directly Japanese.
Ask her tutor to often say that our child is a great and wonderful child. Sincere compliments and spur the spirit of children to learn is more important than being taught the various techniques of counting and memorizing quickly. Ask for help from people around including teachers to increase self-esteem sianak.
If the child is young and still likes to be read fairy tale, pangkulah the child when reading a fairy tale. Position the child in a comfortable position and make it easier for us to give kisses and hugs of affection. The goal is for children to connect the pleasurable sensation of reading a book with the love of a parent.
Make a secret letter to the child then we can say that only us and the child know about the letter and its contents. The contents of the letter can be words of enthusiasm for children in teaching or learning activities, school or other things that can arouse the spirit of the child.
From 6 point stages to the spirit of learning to the puppies The point is the cooperation of various parties in inject confidence for children within reasonable limits. Because the above point if done excessively it will be not good for children. See the learning progress so it can be customized. If you have started to appear the spirit of learning sianak then 50% have succeeded