How do we know if we are bringing our children up the wrong way or not?
It is not the easiest job in the world but it certainly is the most wonderful one we could ever have.
We who have the wonder of having our own children, or even adopted ones do not have a book that teaches us how to raise children.
That is actually not true, we have a bible. The bible teaches us everything we have to do. It teaches us about what not to do and how to do everything we are supposed to.
So we do not really have an excuse if we are doing things the wrong way. The whole bible tells us what to do to raise our children as good, believing children.
It may seem funny to you if I say this but there is an answer for all our problems if we know our bible.
The younger the child is and is taught what is right from wrong; it will become easier for them when they get older.
Then we as parents have to be an example to them.
Children especially the young ones have a way to follow your example even if it is bad. That is the reason we always have to be very careful of what we say in front of children and they must know what our reaction will be when they do something wrong.
If they are brought up in this way, they will never have problems at school and they will always love going to school.
Both parents must follow the same rules and stand together. If we do not do that we will have children who will not really know what to do.
Who do they go to if the one says this and the other parent that?
It is very confusing for children and for that reason parents should sit together and be on the same level when it comes to the bringing up of their children.
Security is one of the most important things that we can give our children in life. Love and security must be the most important part of our children’s lives.
Then we have to remember to listen to them.
There is a big difference between hearing and listening.
They must know that they can come to us with any problem, and not be scared as we are the only ones or maybe a teacher who can help them with a problem.
If we could teach all parents that this is the way we have to bring up our children, we will have a wonderful world to live in and we will have so many less problems with crime and murder happening in this world.
It does seem as if crime is getting bad everywhere, but it could always have been that way, we just did not have such communication as the internet when we were young.
Maybe we did just not hear about it all so quickly as we do, as there was always a long time laps in early days to receive news. Today we almost get all news immediately from around the world.
I really hope you liked my post.
May you have a wonderful day.