Let's be a best parents for our gold generation

These are sevent pilars to be best parents for our best child

1. PREPARATION BEING PARENTS
   ✏ Identify Couples Further.
   ✏ Complete INNERCHILD that affects all Roles and ways of Parenting.
   ✏ Understand how different Brain works between Men and Women.
   ✏ Improve the role and Responsibility of Husbands and Wives
   ✏ Fill the role of Father & Mother.
   ✏Let us that we are "BABY SITTER of GOD" !!?
   ✏As far as you are prepared to be a Husband / Wife by your Father and Mother?
   ✏How was the story married first?
   ✏ Agree on what child?
   ✏Are you both working?
   ✏ Sufficiently fulfilled our child's sense, soul, and spiritual needs?

Then what do we do?
Sub-contracting children is not it?

Let's understand WHO'S CHILDREN

✏ Your children are not your choice, they become your children not because of their choice but because of the destiny of Allah (Q: S 28:78, 42:49:50).

✏ The child we deliver can never be ordered. Like his eyes, want curly hair and so forth, wanting to be like his father or mother, or uwaknya, can not be arranged.

✏ Because what God has for you is obligatory for you to fulfill (Q.S: 8: 27-28).

Children other than being the baby and pride of his parents, the Son is also the Exam & Enemy. (5:48, 6: 165)
And the way we nurture our children often in an automated way. What we get from our parents automatically sends us back to our children without any science.

MOM and Dad From now on How to automatically nurture change with care loving, love, and science.

✏ The caring must be BBM (True, Good & Fun), True according to the Provisions of Allah and the Sunnah of the Prophet. Good and Fun for the child and how his Brain works.

✏ Mother MUST breastfeed her child for 2 Years. And Please Pregnant Back After 2 Years. (2: 233)

✏ In the Qur'an It is clear that Pregnancy and Breastfeeding is 30 Months (46:15)

✏ Breastfeeding baby should be fun, do not get Mother Stress, because Cortisol (Stress Hormone) will drain the same Emotions into Baby Body

1. DUAL PARENTING (DAD AND MOTHER) INVOLVED

✏Do you realize the importance of parenting role?
✏My agreement on nurturing?
✏A ​​/ not division of tasks in parenting?
✏ To what extent are you involved in daily parenting?

Father's not involved in parenting

Unbalanced nutrition is not balanced:
PHYSICAL-LIFE-SPIRITUAL --- "SUNYI JIWANYA children

Division of tasks
🔖World: Academic, Manner, Emotion, Social, Responsibility of the day etc.
🔖Akhirat: Faith, Islam, Read Qur'an, Sirrah Nabawiyah, Story 25 Prophet, Story before bed

✏ THE ROLE OF DAD

• Dad Men Options
• Father The first person to leave the Seeds of the Child.
• Dad will be asked about his Leadership & Education.
• GBHK Determinant Father (Outline of the Family Bowl).

✏RGHT OF FATHER: Loved, Rewarded, Respected, Cared & Trusted.

✏Sang Ayah in the Qur'an -> Prophet Muhammad, Prophet Ibrahim, Prophet Shu'aib, Prophet Ya'kub, Prophet Noah and Luqman.

✏ RESULTS HARVARD -> Father involved in Parenting:

• Growing Children Become Adults Who Like to Entertain Others.
• The child becomes a person who has a HIGH SELF-PRICE.
• Academic Achievement above Average.
• More sociable.

So -> FATHER'S INVOLVEMENT IN PARENTING IS IMPORTANT .. !!

1. MAKE A PURPOSE AND COMMUNITY OBJECTIVE

✏The purpose of care is clear

1. Servant of Allah / believer who Taqwa morality, perfect worship
2. Candidate husband / wife
3. Candidate Father / mother
4. Professional / Entrepreneur
5. Educators, Wives, Children & Families
6. Responsible family
7. Benefit for the People

Mother may work as long as her Youngest Child Age Minimum 8 years and Already Independent. Mother must have Skill / Skill.
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1. GOOD COMMUNICATION IS TRUE AND FUN

✂The Fallacy in Communicating

• Talk in haste
• Do not know yourself
• FORGOTE that every individual is UNIQUE
• Kebituhan & Kesekuan Different, so do not be flat on the same should be all like we want it.
• Do not read BODY LANGUAGE
• Do not hear Feelings
• Lack of listening On
• Using 12 Popular Styles

🔖How GOOD COMMUNICATIONS:
✏Save frequency
✏Read body language
✏Help

Talk: Right, Good, and Fun
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1. PARENTS PLANNING RELIGIOUS VALUES (DID YOUR OWN RELIGION)
   ✏Do not subcontract the religious education of the Child. For that, parents need to study religion
   ✏RUBAH PARADIGMA-> perspective in educating children
   ✏ Who Educates -> DAD
   ✏Not CAN but LOVE
   For example -> Not a child can be recited but children like to recite
   ✏ THE POLICY: The Parent's Responsibility Is Shaping Fueling Habits and Leaving Memories.
   ✏ PRIORITIES: Align His FAITH, Fear of Allah, the love of the Apostle and the Scriptures, both his Morals, True Worship and Ready to enter Baligh into Mature Man (Wife / Husband, Daughter, & Father / Mother)
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2. PREPARING THE BALIGH
   Starting from: AWARENESS AND THE DEFENSE of a child is the AMANAH of God

✏SADAR: Responsibility to God, Gentingnya issues issue developing, Children need companion