Ever not listen to the words spoken by our children?
"Mom, I do not want to go to school"
"Mother, I'm lazy to learn"
Surely yes, what should the parent or educator do if the child says so ...?
First, a parent who is too patient will surely let his child if he does not want to study or go to school. Parents like this will let their child out of school or not study. Usually with this kind of treatment, it is not good for children.
The second is the coercive parents. This type of parent will surely force and scold her child if she does not go to school or not study. Again good not for children if forced?
The above common problems are common, and do not even get the attention of parents about it. Children are innocent, gentle, weak and pure human beings. The child is not worthy of a scolding or even letting it at will. Because parents have to balance between firmness and attention, not because it is too dear to the child, whatever is obeyed, or scold the child if the child does not want to obey the wishes of the parents.
My advice if the child is lazy or do not want to go to school let it first, later the children stay in school, so let the child's desire to school flowing, if the child is calm and not think lazy. to go to school again, persuade the child firmly but show no anger. Like taking a child with a bath first to give pleasure to children, like bathing in the basin, then the children to school by inviting them to have fun.
Next give appreciation to the child, but less give appreciation by giving something excess, like give toys or buy snacks if want to school, get used to give appreciation through words of compassion praise. For example "my son handsome if you want to take a shower, go bath and go to school let me add handsome and add smart" Maybe in that way to foster motivation to learn children.