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(20). Give the Responsibility to Child

In order for us to be able to deal with the problems that occur in children, not just silent attention to the problem, throwing scorn and burden more than the ability, we must first know the responsible responsible for the task in which the child carried out and the mistakes suffered as a result.

Are parents who bear mistakes, or children, whether parents act as supervisors, or together exchange roles, so that everyone has a role in solving and producing results as expected.

So that we can solve these problems together and determine who is responsible for them.

When we delegate responsibility to the child, it is necessary communication skills at this stage, for the realization of the expected goal.

Sometimes some children struggle to restore that responsibility back to their parents and throw in a celebration like this, dad, what my mom says about my problems with my brothers.

When we are about to take the stage of transferring responsibility to the child, we must know the advantages of that stage;

The child feels more confident, able to make decisions correctly and get used to assume responsibility.
Change the way to solve the problem, from quarreling to the urge to solve the problem.

Many issues related to children occur, not only related to it, but also affect the lives of parents. As concrete evidence, the common problems that relate to children's problems with the family.
Instead of the parents intervene to solve the problem in a way, it would be better if he followed the children together to assume responsibility, so as to achieve a concerted effort among family members.