(22). Give Freedom
Before we delegate responsibility to the child and get used to it, then it would be nice to prepare by training him to carry out the responsibility. And for that, he needs complete freedom. Misbehavior, usually arising from the child, due to the limitation of his intention in choosing the program of activities and activities, which are controlled directly by the parents and directed according to the goals and objectives.
Parents who are authoritarian to children will fail to train their children to carry out responsibilities, as if the child has failed to carry out the responsibility and not the parents' mistakes.
Giving freedom to express opinions and beliefs to children, and trying to train their independence when there is difficulty in life, can give him the opportunity to face problems and find the right way to overcome them. It is the ideal attitude to let him accomplish what he has done, without any interference, unless he keeps trying, but can not solve the problems he faces.
At that time, then we give the key solutions and help at a glance, without having to gambling, So he is not easy to hand over the problem to his family, but he tried to assume responsibility and always looking for the right solution to the problems encountered.
That freedom of opinion, will give him the ability to make decisions. Although sometimes there must be mistakes, but he can overcome and measure his ability to seek preparation for himself.
From here grows confidence and success in the child. There is no feeling of happiness in him, except to succeed in the task and overcome all the difficulties in it.
Mothers who forbid their children to take responsibility, think that their child is free from the demands, so they satisfy their children by playing and enjoying their childhood. This view needs to be straightened out, because the child's traits and the growth of his personality will be hampered. So that he will mengadalkan others in memmenuhi needs, can not take responsibility and fail to achieve success in the future.
If a father wants his son to repeat school lessons at home, then do not induce him to do it at the time his father wants. But give the option to repeat after school, complete ashar prayer or make a special schedule in time to concentrate on learning.
By cultivating a sense of responsibility within the child, it can restrict us from issuing rough orders in relationships such as; Do not turn on the television, do not raise your voice, go to bed fast. Or other phrases that may affect the relationship between parent and child That giving the child the opportunity to choose what task he wants to carry out and encouraging himself to carry out the task as he wishes, will make him feel happy, because there is no coercion and pressure in carrying out duties by parents.25 Ways to Generate a Tough Generation
- How to Generate a Tough Generation : (1). Start From Yourself
- How to Generate a Tough Generation : (2). Do Not Be Violence
- How to Generate a Tough Generation : (3). Build Confidence in Children
- How to Generate a Tough Generation : (4). Do Not Make Him Your Custodian
- How to Generate a Tough Generation : (5). Building Independence in Children
- How to Generate a Tough Generation : (6). Do not over-protect (overprotective)
- How to Generate a Tough Generation : (7). Generate to his identity
- How to Generate a Tough Generation : (8). Teach story Life Just a Minute
- How to Generate a Tough Generation : (9). Strive to Continue to Develop His Skills
- How to Generate a Tough Generation : (10). Give Him a Chance To Help You
- How to Generate a Tough Generation : (11). Let him play
- How to Generate a Tough Generation : (12). Establish the Family Rules in Your Home
- How to Generate a Tough Generation: (13). Shape a Child to be a High-Spirited Individual
- How to Generate a Tough Generation : (14). Help Him Choose Friends
- How to Generate a Tough Generation: (15). Do not Ridicule and Blaspheme
- How to Generate a Tough Generation : (16). Build Goals and Purpose of Life
- How to Generate a Tough Generation : (17). Encourage your child to be flexible
- How to Generate a Tough Generation: (18). Assign Responsibility
- How to Generate a Tough Generation : (19). Make Him Honorable with Responsibility
- How to Generate a Tough Generation (20). Give the Responsibility to Child
- How to Generate a Tough Generation : (21). Keep Improving Achievement Being the Best
