The Picture Located in One of Boarding School in Aceh, Indonesia
As we know children was very fragile in all aspect, they will do everything based on what the sources that they got. For instant, after watching movies such as cartoon with contained by some unbelievable action, in the same time they will re-act to do the same thing, and also after they look their parents behaviour instantly they will do the same thing. This fact was very crucial if it not handled in good hand.
Understanding your child is one of the most important things that you should learn as a parent. It is very helpful in becoming effective in guiding and nurturing your child as they grow and mature. You need to bear in mind that your child has a unique personality trait that remains consistent throughout life. One of the ways you can understand your child is by observing them as they sleep, eat, or play. Look for the consistent traits. Which activities do they like best? Is adjusting to changes easy for them or do they need time to become familiar with these things? These things are the normal characteristics of a child and your child may not be an exception. As much as possible, have time to talk to your children as this is crucial to gaining information and understanding. In the case of young children, they require less verbal language and more facial expression and body language in order to understand their thoughts and feelings. Asking them questions will allow them to share their feelings to you.
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Based on those explanation, in the hinterland of Aceh Province, there are Boarding School which filled by some children for about 10-14 years old. This ages was the most easiest time to teach them to in building the attitudes on daily life. So, the principal of school try to integrated the 5 powerful attitudes toward the children, these following explanation was the part of activity that influenced the children in their daily life activities.
The 5 Powerful Attitudes must be Teached to Childrens
1. Smile
First time of this small act, you are as their teacher, brother, etc must practise firstly. Show them your sweet smile and let them give you back of these thing.
2. Salam/Peace
The meaning instead of peace mean say SALAM, in Islamic world salam was the very important side when you meet with the people, It can tied up your community, social relation. Every side of religion have their opening word when they meet with someone, in this part, I'm just explained in Islam side. Let your student know that giving salam when you meet them was the best behaviour. This behaviour later gonna influenced their attitudes with the others.
3. Greeting
There is nothing so much different between Salam and Greeting. It just laid on the word used, when you greeting someone means you care about them, just like when you say goo morning, children they replied back or good luck, everyone they also replied back. so this side of attitudes taugh them about how to respect and care the others.
4. Respect
This behaviour influenced thei social relation, its managing about how they re-act or respond the others, such as you give them reward by saying What a lovely working, children or It is great to have you did all your homework
5. Politeness
Its just not mean by doing, but how you speak with them was also apart of attitudes which mean are you polites or otherwise. Just give them sample as your behaviour toward them. May be such as when you wanna punish them, give it the best one within aviced.
These 5 following attitudes mentioned was applied and integrated toward the IBS-DI (Islamic BOarding School-Darul Ilmi) Hopeful you can try those on your boarding school, or etc.
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