VIRGINITY
The state of which one has never been in a sexual intercourse be it a male or female.
Everyone believes the way to know if a girl is a virgin or not is that is for her to bleed during her first sexual intercourse but this is a very wrong believe, Bleeding doesn't decide if a girl is a virgin or not so I decided to write this article to help educate the young men and women on this issue of girls bleeding during their first sexual intercourse.
THE MYTH ABOUT FEMALE VIRGINITY.
Possible chance why most women won't bleed during their first sexual intercourse, as it is South and Central Asia (Afghanistan, India, Pakistan, Bangladesh etc.) and Africa (Nigeria and many other nations ) that you can tell if a woman is a virgin, by whether or not she bleeds the first time she has sex. There is zero truth in this. Not all women bleed the first time they have sex, as I'll explain in this post.
To understand why some women bleed and some don't, it's very important to understand what the hymen is. The hymen is a membrane that tends to cover part of the vaginal opening it does not always block or cover the entire vagina, as some people mistakenly think.
NOT ALL WOMEN HAVE A HYMEN.
The hymen is different from each other in woman like all women have different heights and weights and features and other qualities, and also women have different amounts and types of hymen. Some women tend to have thick hymens, why some tend to have very thin hymens, why we can also find some women with NO hymens at all. Some tend to women have larger hymens, why some women tend to naturally have a very little amount of hymen that tends to covers only a small portion of their vaginal opening (and hence it does not really get in the way, during first-time sexual intercourse).
To add to this, the hymen tends to wears away on its own as a girl grows older. For some women, the hymen wears away by itself during exercise, horseback riding, bicycling; it can also wear off with pretty much any other physical stressful activity, even dancing can wear out a hymen or the use of tampons during menstruating. Most especially if the hymen tends to be very small or thin, most of it wears away on its own as a girl grows older.
Some woman are also born WITHOUT a hymen, she won't bleed the first time she has a sexual intercourse. It is possible for a woman with a small or thin hymen not bleed on her first sexual intercourse. When a woman's hymen has worn away by itself (which is mostly common as girls grow older), she won't bleed on her first time sexual intercourse. This is the result that the overwhelming majority -at least 62% of women are NOT going to bleed in their first sexual intercourse.
- Women who do bleed include women who have thick hymens (they cover a small percentage of the population) Younger girls. Because the hymen wears away by itself with time, a 16years old tends to have a higher chance of bleeding than a 25years old woman. By the time a girl is or above the legal age of consent 18years, 20years and 24years of age, for example most of their hymen is likely to have worn away by itself meaning it's unlikely that she'll bleed a lot, if at all.
However, even younger girl can be physically active, whether having a thin or small hymen, or having no hymen at all, meaning she might not bleed during first time sexual intercourse. Most often, women who bleed are likely to be women who are dealt with roughly during sexual intercourse. In which a guy forces himself inside the girl (rape), when she isn't ready or giving in, relaxed or sexually aroused enough, he is likely to cause a little or serious injury or bleeding. Because most people have in mind that it's normal for women to bleed the first time she have a sexual intercourse, they don't realize that this bleeding during sex is a result of the woman having been hurt, and not of the hymen breaking.
Pain in first time sex is generally because the woman is not relaxed or sexually aroused enough, and gets hurt at the ending; it is common because of the hymen having to break. The bottom line is that there is no way to access female virginity. Bleeding as it is does not have anything to do with the virginity, it only has to do with the kind of hymen a girl possesses, and hymens are different from girl to girl from birth. The result tend to show that only a small percentage of women bleed the first time during sexual intercourse Only 37% bleed during first time sexual intercourse,
Why is this so important to be known?
Average percent of Women all over the world get abused, injured and even killed because of the myth of 'virgin bleeding Because most people men and women think that bleeding is a good sign of virginity, women who didn’t bleed during their first sexual intercourse have been divorced, suffering from suspicion leading to domestic violence and abuse, and even killed for that. Educating and enlightening people that a girl does not necessarily have to bleed the first time she has sexual intercourse because not all girls are having a thick hymens, and why some are born with NO hymen at all, is so important because it can literally save lives.
How to help others to get this information
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