My two-year-old little guy has quite the feisty temperament, I think he is definitely one of those spirited characters who have their own perspective on how and when things should be done! I appreciate his uniqueness and don’t see it as a bad trait to have at all, but it is a tad difficult to deal with when your kid is a toddler and doesn’t quite understand that boundaries need to be taken into consideration too! For example, my kid loves to play rough, explore daringly and freaks out when he is told “no” – probably like most toddlers (just multiply it by 10)!  

Anyway, although his spirited nature can be exhausting (and challenging), I appreciate his personality and know that someday he will make one determined young man, he has something to offer this world and he is not going to back down, that’s for sure! In the meantime, he keeps me on my toes and just like any mom, often leaves me concerned. 

One of my biggest previous concerns was his bad habit of treating small creatures and critters roughly, and often harming them. He was obviously not harming them intentionally, but he was battling to grasp the concept that his rough and selfish play was hurting or scaring the animals. Every mom, I’m sure, wants their children to be kind and gentle towards others, animals included. So of course, I was distraught with his behavior. Many moms told me not to worry, it’s just a phase they go through. 

Not worrying was not enough for me though, I am more of a proactive type! So, I put in every effort to lead by example. I started taking him on frequent visits to animal farms and our local SPCA. When a critter crossed our paths, I showed loving interest in it and acted kindly and gently towards it – with much emphasis. I’m not sure if this rubbed off on him or if his “phase” passed. But I can proudly boast that my now almost three-year-old son treats all creepy crawlies and animals with so much care and showers them with gentleness and affection. 

Just look at how sweetly he is interacting with all of these animals! He has impressed us so much with showing responsibility towards animals and even the smallest of bugs, that we have decided to get him his very first dog, and potential best friend!

Much love _ Hive account@sweetpea