You might be Dating , courting or married ....So, I don't need to start giving us the definition of Relationship bcos I believe we are all familiar with the concept.
I must tell you that,
RELATIONSHIPS are one of the hardest things in this world for anyone, but they're the foundation of our existence and they keep life moving on.
If they were a subject or a course unit, it would have been the hardest of all and many would have been getting countless retakes.
But what makes them so hard?
It’s we humans. We lie a lot, we aren't open enough, we don't know what we want, we don't value what we have, we cheat a lot, we aren't loyal, we aren't contented of what we have.
we have different interests and values, we are careless , we are totally imperfect and we have a lot of baggage that we carry with us which is too heavy to bear and off load and many other things.
If we were good people in all those things then relationships would have been a walk over in this world.
So, if you have someone who shows that they really love and care about you and they make you happy in their own ways, then just count yourself lucky and blessed .
Be generous to that person, return the same love and keep them in the safest place in yourheart because such people are rare to find.
There are people in relationships with others but well knowing that they don't belong together, they will never be husband and wife or mummy and daddy at any one moment.
But they are locked in there. They have always seen warning signs for them to quit but they always ignore them. They are in denial. They are enjoying the benefits in those relationships and they think they are on the winning side of the game.
But little do they know that they are also wasting their precious time and energy. They are limiting their chances to better and serious people. And theyare digging their own graves.In the end they will be the very people regretting for their wasted time.
They will be the one blaming this world to be unfair. They will be judging others how they have no love and they will be calling them ugly names.If you are among these kind of people, I come to tellyou today that please get of the circle.
You are a precious person to be careless with your life and future, you are a beautiful (handsome), young and strong person to become someone's side dish and you have a very beautiful heart to be stomped on like that. You need to stop wasting your time on people you well know that you will never be together no matter what.
You need not to force your heart where its not welcomed and valued. You need to know your worth and fix yourself where you belong.
Sometimes I wish there was a special way that we could get to look into the hearts of the people we choose to date and fall in love with so that we can be able to see if they really mean what they tell us, what they plan for us and even to save our hearts and ourselves from future pain, wasted time, headache,and a heartbreak.
You know why am saying that?....
It’s because you can meet someone, you find them so attractive and interesting, you like their characters, you develop feelings for them and within no time you give them your heart.You trust them, you rely on them, you plan your future with them, you struggle to make them happy and feel loved, you become addicted to
Them, they change you and you make big adjustments in very many things in your life just because you truly love them and for the good of your relationship with them.
But out of the blue they completely change. They portray their true colors,they become so hard on you and eventually they break up with you with no mercy at all. They leave you with chronic pain and unforgettable memories, they forget all the promises they made to you and they don’t give a damn about your crying heart and the time you spent together.They just hate you for no good reason and they treat you like a total stranger. IT REALLY HURTS SO MUCH.They come in our lives to use us, to revenge on us, to know us and just to have fun with
us.
Don't wait for the right time to make the final decision, the right time will never come. It's now that you have to make a difference in your life. Set your pace!.
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