Clearly, some people come into our lives as blessings while others come as lessons. Our daily experiences are proof that life does not just happen to us. Things are divinely orchestrated. So...?
We must never be in a hurry to judge or discredit other people because of a preconceived notion or because we've had some pretty bad experience at some time with other people.
Those who come as blessings will help us get to climes in our lives we've never reached before or might never reach but for our encounter with them. They are sometimes referred to as destiny helpers.
Those who come as lessons will open our minds to the other things life has to offer; the sacrificial part of life; the part where we are humbled and learn a lesson or two. Where we understand that some things just have to be let the way they are so we can move on.
Whatever we do, we must learn this wisdom and hold it to heart. We must learn to appreciate people or at least, give them the benefit of doubt to proof themselves.
We must understand yet the more that we are imperfect on our own and need a chance to proof who and what we are.