Discipline for children is not the whim of adults. It is necessary for the healthy development of the child: his complete physical, emotional and mental development.
Without the established rules, children can not establish relationships with other people and learn to be responsible.
At the same time, disciplined children tend to develop self-control, respect for other people and the ability to cooperate with them.
Why do we need discipline?
Some parents mistakenly believe that life itself will put everything in its place. Others refuse to be educated to avoid conflicts with the child. Still others have unpleasant memories of how their parents raised them and decide to leave things alone.
Unfortunately, changing responsibility often leads to the fact that children become capricious, irritable and sensitive. These children do not have a relationship with their parents and do not make friends with their peers.
Learning to control behavior and control negative emotions is extremely necessary even at school age.
What is discipline?
Discipline is, above all, a conflict-free relationship with a child. Proper education is not strictly controlling the child and systematically punishing for misconduct.
The main objective is to teach the child to manage his own behavior. This can be achieved by creating clear boundaries that will help the child do the right thing.
- For example, if the child behaves badly at the table, calmly, without raising his voice, explain that the rest of the family feels uncomfortable having dinner with him, so he should go to his room.
- Always follow the agreed rules and be fair: the rules and limits exist for everyone. If you want the child to always order the toys, and do not throw your things around the apartment.
Why is discipline important?
Surprisingly, without prohibitions on the part of parents, children feel abandoned and unhappy. In addition, they do not develop social skills as important as:
- self-control and ability to resist temptations,
- respect for parents and other authorities,
- Sympathy, patience and skill are divided.
The disciplined children, on the contrary:
- they can control themselves,
- they are self-sufficient and self-confident,
- responsible and obedient,
- make friends easily,
- They trust adults and recognize their authority.
What is important for parents to know?
The key to a proper child education is absolute calm. Even if you are very angry, postpone the conversation until you calm down.
Be sure to give your child the right to choose and help him learn from his mistakes.
The most important
Discipline is not rigor and punishment, but clear limits that tell the child how to behave in different situations.
Follow in silence the compliance with established rules, be fair and set a good example: this is the best way to elevate the responsibility of the child and protect him from temptation.
Posted from my blog with SteemPress : http://deisip67.vornix.blog/2018/07/22/why-is-it-important-to-discipline-children/