The first emotional exchanges and experiences with the environment determine the emotional development of the child, in their interior they are linked by their mind and body, which significantly influences and / or almost the whole development of the capacity to love and feel .
2 months and a half ago I had my first baby, as a new mother I did not know many things about it, especially how I had to raise my girl, several people came to me saying that I should not have my baby in my arms for a long time because then I would get used to to be like this and would not let me do the housework. Fearing that this would happen, I tried to leave my girl in her crib for longer with the intention of not having her in my arms, but she would not stop crying, she did not understand the demand for love that she required.
All change when I consulted the specialist doctor
He told me that the belief of not having the baby in his arms because he gets used to it is totally false. From the first days of life it is essential that the child feels the love and warmth of their parents so that they have a healthy emotional development and grow without fear.
Since then I offer her all my love and attention that she needs, in this way I could see that she feels safe in my arms, and when I give her a medication or give her an injection, the girl confronts him with security, calm and smiling.
Love not only contributes to the emotional development of children, but also, cognitive, physical and social development. This responsibility is not only for the parents, it is also for the teachers because the children spend a large part of their time with them.
A child full of love, is an emotionally secure child.
Offering love increases self-esteem in children and facilitates them to create an intelligent personality, helping them to control any type of common fears that arise during their growth.
Children are born with impressive qualities such as optimism, persistence and enthusiasm, are qualities that we must strengthen through a nurturing and education filled with love.
The lack of affection brings innumerable consequences
In the adult stage, he will tend to be insensitive, selfish, insecure, with phobias and in a constant search for affection, vulnerable to depression and vices.
How to achieve an affective relationship with your child?
No matter how old you are, show your love by listening carefully when the child talks, assessing their ideas, understanding their feelings, making the education that you offer a guide for the way you have to go, spend quality time with the child and always keep good communication.
Love plays such an important role in the growth of our children, love is a food for the soul, it is one of the best foods we can offer our children, a child who receives love will be an adult who offers love, sure of your feelings, and with a healthy physical, mental and emotional state.
Posted from my blog with SteemPress : http://nazareth.vornix.blog/2018/09/20/love-is-a-fundamental-factor-in-the-emotional-development-of-children/