Have a good day, today I want to address a topic that is currently very well-known due to the terrible consequences it has caused in youth; I mean "Bullying", as parents and teachers, it is a subject that we must dominate.
What is bullying?
The English word bullying means Intimidation. Bullying is also called bullying, refers to physical and/or verbal abuse received by a child by one or several partners and occurs frequently and permanently in order to intimidate, deceive, threaten, extort or blackmail the boy.
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2 - A child may present aggressive behavior as a means to express their feelings in a family environment where there is violence, abuse, the absence of the father or mother, humiliation by their parents, older brothers or on the contrary, for being a very child spoiled.
Children who practice bullying enjoy when the victim suffers and is frightened by their provocations since they want to exercise power or wish to have control, this is possibly due to the fact that they have witnessed extreme macho behaviors at home.
However, not every child who suffers abuse in the home becomes an abuser. Many flee from violence because they understand the suffering that they themselves have experienced and even ironically they can become victims of bullying.
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3- There is a very high level of risk in which there is bullying in the spacious schools and with large enrollments, since for its broad capacity of students it is more complicated to have physical control, respect, vigilance, humiliation, blackmail, or exclusion between teachers and students. In addition the absence of limits, the lightness with which students are treated, the absence of rules of coexistence influence so that this type of behaviors is presented with more regularity.
A child or adolescent who is being a victim of bullying will not openly confess that he or she is being attacked, as they feel fear, shame or fear of receiving revenge from their aggressors; That is why it is important that we know how to identify the existence of bullying:
1- Tears and sadness frequent unjustifiably
2- Headaches, vomiting or dizziness.
3- Lack of appetite, nightmares or insomnia
4- Lack of concentration and bad grades
5- Avoid going to school
6- Frequent loss of any school utensil
7- He arrives home with bruises, bumps, scratches and is justified by saying that it has been a fall or accidents.
8- Does not interact with his colleagues and remains isolated.
9- He prefers that his parents wait for him at the exit.
If your child or any child or adolescent in your environment shows these signs, you are being bullied.
In the future, they can become delinquents, due to the frustration of not being able to live with other children, believes that no matter how much effort they make, they will not be able to relate positively with their peers.
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Timid attitudes, insecurity, low self-esteem, loss of interest in studies which can cause school failure, psychosomatic problems, anxiety, depression, emotional disorders, suicidal thoughts.
Bullying is one of the most serious and dangerous social deficiencies for youth, every day a young man dies because of this type of aggression, because the pressure for oppression, humiliation, abuse, leads them to think that the solution is suicide, but what solution do we provide for this situation?
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1-Be alert and informed of what the students in charge do, taking into account that bullying occurs in places far from teacher supervision such as bathrooms, school buses, hallways, play areas, etc. and must notify the directors and administrative staff of the school the existence of a case of bullying.
2-You must not allow games or violent treatment between students, on the contrary, should remind their students that bullying is unacceptable and that its practice has dire consequences.
1- Talk to your children about bullying, what it means and the consequences it causes in order to stop bullying before it starts.
2 - Children are experts imitating their parents, so the behavior of parents in the handle should be free of violence or aggressiveness, should set the example for their children.
3- Detect personality problems, insecurity or self-esteem in the child, since often children who present this type of problems harass others to feel good about themselves, and those who are accepted by a group and have popularity tend to have attitudes of cruelty. Parents must correct these attitudes in their children.
1- Determine if there are signs of harassment in the attitude of your child.
2- Teach your child how to defend himself and how to react to a bullying situation and who he should go to.
1- Notify the teaching and/or administrative staff of the existence of any case of personal or cyberbullying.
2- Avoid responding violently to a case of bullying.
Posted from my blog with SteemPress : http://nazareth.vornix.blog/2018/09/12/what-you-should-know-about-bullying/
