5 - Embrace Life in its Completeness, Even the bad things.

Sometimes there no easy answer, Towards the end of last summer my 16-year-old son died suddenly and the truth is all our lives will never be the same. His 2 younger sisters have lost the brother they always known since there first breath and are we to forget everything we know... No.
But life goes on regardless and some things take time to get used to. So I think there's always an exception to any rule. Not until it happens to you do you find out the harsh reality of life...you not here for long some far less than others and you have no control over things you think you have control over. Time is the most valuable thing as it can never be got back. Every day I wish my son was here to annoy me like he did, drain my wallet like he did. but would I change it no?.It's Not your normal scenario and they the ones that hurt us the most,
A piece of my heart has been ripped out, i'd give my life in a heart beat if it was for my kid/s but saying that...It's not how it works most of the time there's nothing you or anyone can do... Just is what it is, what will be will be. You just have to find a way to cope with it and move forward.