The greatest level of ignorance and pain militating against people is seeing their background as their greatest hindrance.
My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge..... " Hos. 4:6.
There is a way out of that feeling of rejection and abandonment. Rejection as in it were is a stage or a things everyone undergoes comsciously or unconciously. At a time in one 's life, one is denied some basic needs of life and a feeling of rejection sets in. it is only a challenge to be faced; it is not a peculiar to a selected few. All you need to do is to see it as a tool for yor greatness. Seize every opportunity hanging aroubd your background; see it as a tool for affecting hunmanity. Life does not give to you what you want bubt what you place a demand on. Input determine output.
Whatever you don't put an effort into remains dormant. It is your efforts that God crowns with success.
KEYS THAT DELIVER ONE FROM IGNORANCE
"Love is kind.............. envieth not .....
beareth all things, endyreth all things .....
never faileth......... " 1 Cor. 13:4-8
Love covers all things, it endures all things; it is the whole esseence of life. With this tool, you can turn every situation around for the better.
low self-esteem is the reson for a feeling of background deficiency. How you feel about your self goes a long way to determine how well you live. That you have been rejected or a vitim of circumstance is not the end of your life. there is always a reason for any season in life. God did not make a mistake by sending you here on earth. Whatever happens to you in life, even negative ones can be made to have positive effect on your destiny.
To deal with this obstacle of rejection or background barrier, you must first, out of necessity love and accept who you are. There is nothing that can quantify self-love. Love is a force that gurantees self-esteem.
Don't allow you background or parental mistake to jopardize your life. Remember, you have one life to live. Loving for yourself is a must if you want to reign on earth.
BE-LITTLE EVERY UNFAVOURABLE BACKGROUND
"There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: God is faithful, whowill not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be to bear it" 1 Cor. 10:13
You may have ben a product of a poor family, a broken home, divorce, unwanted pregnancy, inordinate relationship or even an orphan and as a result abandoned or rejected by all. You may be even been tagged failure personified, I have good news for you; yours is not the first or worst of such cases. It is not a unique or special situation: no one has any unique problem. There is nothing new under the sun. You are not the first to be born like that and won't be the last.
Life is a process that brings about progression; these are what make life move along. See your situation and background as a usual thing to be confronted. Dont personalize, specialize or magnify it. Dont make much ado about it; don't attach so much sentiments or importance to it so does not give birth to bitterness.
Instead of dwelling in bitterness, sorrow or depression, plan and strategize on a better life for yourself. See every mountain as surmountable and see every challenge as a walk-over and a phase in life you need to pass through for a better tomorrow. Life is in phases and everyone had, had to face a situation at one time or the other in life.
Develop a good and quality understanding of the simplicity of that circumstance, so as to help you the self-esteem needed to live a fulfilled life. You are not a misfit, you are not born as a mistake; God never make mistakes.
Believe you are coming out very soon you will be out that situation or circumstance.
BELIEVE IT IS ACHIEVABLE
".. Behond, the people is one, and they have all on language; and this they begin to do and now nothing will be restrained from them, which they have imagined to do" Gen. 11:6
Everything assumes a state of rest until a force is applied to it. Determination is the key to success. Whatever you are not determined to achieve, you will never get.
In the story of the Bible refrence above, the people were determined. There was a drive in them; they were zealous to achieve their goal.
you must be determined to be whom you want to be and who God has made you to be no matter what it takes.
Do not be a lazy person. Laziness has eroded a lot of destines. Whatever your dream is, it is achievable. Be ready with all momentum to give all it takes, so as to see it actualized. Another name for determination is zeal, which is what drives you into; taking steps. Action is a vital tool if any of your dreams is to become reality.