While the first night? I cry? the word someone friend opens his story with us. Relaxed situation suddenly changed to hear that sentence. Some of us so impatiently awaits the next sentence. Why a man crying on the proper night of blissful.
Why do you cry at happy moment like that? wrong question someone Associates represent an impetuous.
I cried because overburdened mind. How do I restore a debt for receptions during the last, answered HIDIPKU while mencertakan more about wedding reception that cost an enormous financial power while limited. The family was forced to once owed.
There are valuable lessons from what my colleague encountered this. Due to the demands of social, prestige, or desire so that the wedding day into a special event, we are stuck in an attitude of excessive time hosted a walimah or wedding receptions. From the start, the lux building invitations are magnificent and expensive, even coupled with entertainment. Though the marriage remains special even though walimahnya is simple. That makes exceptional i.e. contract contract, his sacred promise, bond strength, changes the relationship of two people who are not mahram beginnings is now a pair of husband and wife.
Memperturutkan social demands or prestige, some people ultimately sincere owes big for one wedding reception that glamour. They like buying pleasures with paid him over the years ahead. Until there is that thought like a friend.
There is also a reception held for want of that expensive as it is, at the end he put off marriage for years. ? Don't have the money for the walimah? the reason. Though if you want to follow the example of the ease with which dituntunkan Messenger on many companions in Medina, he was capable of. Don't ever Messenger? reprove? Abdurrahman bin Auf who was married without any walimah?? Make a walimah though only by slaughtering a goat? so more or less message Messenger on his friend who pembisnis it. It is indeed time that Abd al-Rahmaan recently working in this business after moving, but he was a wealthy merchant during in Makkah. And not long afterwards he also became filthy rich.
The Messenger of its own when married in Madinah is also simple in walimah. As narrated Imams Bukhari? It is not I witnessed how the Prophet holding a walimah for wife he's like I witnessed while he was married to Zainab? said Anas bin Malik told me walimah nan Holy? He slaughtered a goat?
So, marry it doesn't have to be expensive. Not have to trouble themselves with owed much. Moreover, the issue of dowry, in this country can be extremely facilitated. As Messenger already easing his companions who are married. Who did not have many possessions, the Messenger simply recommend mahar rings, there's even an iron ring. Who did not have enough to teach his wife again, memorizing the Qur'an. Wasnt very easy?
In Islam, the most important is that walimah ilan: his announcement until people know if a muslim as well as a muslimah married, making one new family.
So for you guys who aren't married, sesuaikanlah financial strength with a walimah. Do not be exaggeration. And hopefully there are no more brides who cried on the first night because of overburdened cost walimah and no young man holding out on marriage with strong arguments bear walimah.