quality relationship with God
when Paul met the lord he located his God given purpose . you c an find out what you purpose is first and foremost with being born again accepting Jesus as your lord of your . that is when your life in God actually begin
as you fellowship with him , yo will discover specific purpose in him and how exactly he wants you to live you life , you are your are made by God and for him . at new birth you are adopted into family of God , a son that has right to know the mind of his father , God communicates his mind to us in our fellowship with him in prayers and word.
you can also hear from God through the holy spirit that is the second way of locating God given calling is through the leading of the holy spirit .
but as it is written , eyes has hath not seen , nor ear heard, neither have entered into the heart of man , the things which God hath prepared for them that love him but there is a spirit in man and the inspiration of the almighty give them understanding