Every 2nd girl in our society wants to marry a soldier, the heroes of countries, the pride of their families, the crowns of their beloved mothers and the dream of a girl.
I had the same dream, to marry a soldier and fortunately my dream came true. I got married to a soldier. He is tall, dark , and handsome.
We spend 1month together and then he left for a mission. In this 1 month I felt like a queen of the world. He treated me like a princess.
After this beautiful time he had to leave for a mission.
When he left I came to know about the real struggles of a soldiers wife.
We had to fight daily with our emotions. We had to go through pain when they are not present with us at our special moments.
Same happened to me when I came to know that iam pregnant, a joy of happiness passed through me , I wanted to share this news with a husband, I dialed his number but suddenly I realized that his posting is in such area where signals are not available.
I was 5months pregnant when he returned from mission, the news of him coming back make me alive, brought happiness back in my life.
Now its been 4years of our marriage, today is our anniversary and he is still not here is on a mission. We have a beautiful daughter.
In my 4years of being a soldier’s wife I have learnt many lessons.
How to be patient and live your life without a partner, support his family when he is not there for them. And be strong enough to handle any kind of situation and pray for him when he is in dangerous.
Today,
I, a proud wife of a soldier wants to tell girls that they should dream about marrying a soldier but with that they should make themselves strong enough to handle this life.