Good Morning
It is another good day. It is cloudy what makes me feel more lazy than I am. I used to wake up with sound when I hear the music of my alarm in my dreams for a while before realizing that I need to get up. Now a days I feel like my mind if programmed to awake me exactly at 10 o'clock.
All I need in the future is a househusband who can surprise me with a hot coffee and a nice breakfast in our bedroom. Clean the house and prepare the lunch. Take the dog for a walk and do shopping. What a nice dream!
Many of us are lazy or dont like what we do. I never thought about being a housewife, cleaning up and taking care of home. I want to work, travel and enjoy life. I dont care what the society think and I dont obey any cultural rules. It is my life and I should live it the way I want.
When a wife stays at home and the husband works, we say thats her job. She is a housewife and has to take care about everything. When a man stays at home while his wife works, we say he is lazy person. His wife is working and he is staying at home. It can go wrong if the husband is watching TV all day long and doesn't even prepare food for his wife.
Many men think that the women is supposed to do all the housework. But what if the women is working all day! Does she really need to work again at home?! She is paying with her money and health while the man is doing nothing!
A love relation is supposed to be a sacred relation where two people share everything together and keep each other happy. But such reasons can break the relation very soon.
Many people are loosing their jobs now a days and end up depressed and hopeless. But if we change the rules, we can turn our home to a paradise. All we need is compromise.
I dont have any problem to marry a man who wants to be a househusband. I can work out of home while he takes care about the rest. I dont mind to pay for everything, while he is doing his job. It is wonderful to come home, have a romantic candle light dinner and relax after a long day. New world and new rules. It is all up to us!