Wow it saddens my heart to see how loved ones are been treated badly by the same ones that claim love.
Just today on my way to work I saw a guy who was mercilessly beating up his girl in the name he saw her with a another guy standing together,but the annoining thing is he didn't even bother to ask her what connection she have with this guy.
I know must of you will say he reacted stupidly out of jealous; but please if I may ask were is it written that a man or an immature guy has the right to beat or harrase his girlfriend or wife? (None Abi).
Just the other day at the clinic were I work! a pregnant woman for that matter,the husband out of annoyance slap his pregnant wife;you may ask why? well it may interest you to know that she mistakenly spite at his feet.
Or is it the one that a guy will inpregnant a young lady and only for him to give her some native herbs or rather some poisonous concorsion to abort the pregnancy and at the of the day the young lady full of life looses her life.
What do you have to say to that;can u also call it love or lust or even act of wickedness, Well i don't know but it is high time our men/guys take full responsibilities to have a second thought on how to treat us the way it's supposed to.
What am I trying to say or if I may ask! Please our noble men and vibrant guys, how do you feel after all this actions of beating,slapping,kicking using abusive words on this so called loved wives and girlfriends.
Because in my little understanding what you claim you love? (YOU CHERISH,CARED AND PROTECT IT) in other not to be harm.
But in our society now a days it is the other way round.
WHAT MIGHT PROBABLY BE THE PROBLEM OR HOW CAN THIS PROBLEMS OF MALTREATION END.
SOLUTIONS:
1.Please our men i mean our humble,noble men /guys,it is high time you all know that we ladies are your help mate and not your porging bag or what ever you might think of us.
2.It is high time we earn our respect too from you,now it is via visa thing .We too deserve to be respected.
3.Our married men please i think the world will be a much better place when you also feel what your pregnant wives feel.I mean when she is pregnant you are equally pregnant so please do understand when from slim babe she is now orobo,or from pointed noise to oversize noise and shapeless.Let it be that your shoulders are always availably for her to lean on.
- Our single men please either abstine or zip_up.If you can't use ptotections in other to avoid unwanted pregnancies.
5.Please learn to control your anger/ women too.
6.Do not used words that are not pleasant to your
spouse hearing/women too. - Your compliments to each other matters alot.
8.Married women and men learn to tolerate each other no matter what. - Now in every relationship/marriage there must be miss understanding and you know what I always say this! In every misunderstanding there must be an understanding, in other words learn to settle your differences. Do not sleep holding your partner in mind.It kills, learn to always let it out.
10.Last but not the least know your likes,dislikes hobbies etc and must importantly no third party in your marriage/relationship.
The only third party should be your (GOD).
With this few points of mine I hope it help someone to #comply#understand#whatlovereallymeans.
#oneluv##.
