Dear steemian friend this time I want to share with you. "Within each child's head there are more than 10 trillion brain cells ready to grow. One scream or curse can kill more than 1 billion brain cells at once.
One pinch or punch can kill more than 10 billion brain cells right then and there. Conversely, 1 compliment or embrace will build up the intelligence of more than 10 trillion brain cells at once. "
Snapping can adversely affect the children, because it can make the bonding of the inner bond with the child, other than that screaming does not teach anything for the child's development. When the child is under 10 years of age, they will not fight or snap back.
But because of their passive attitude, you can not measure how much psychological impact caused by snapping. Children tend to mimic the behavior of their parents.
A child who is always yelled at, nagged, or scolded, will grow with the conviction that he is legitimately communicating by using shouting, nagging, or anger.
Some of the negative effects of child snoring are:
Children as adults become minder & afraid to try new things. His soul always feels so guilty that his life is full of doubt and insecurity.
The child will have an angry, selfish, vile nature because he is formed with anger by his parents. If there are things that are not pleasing to him because of his friend's attitude, he tends to be aggressive and scolded his partner. Though the problem is only trivial.
Children will have the nature of challenging, stubborn and like to deny the advice or command of his parents.
The child will have a closed person who likes to keep his gossip, afraid to express, for fear of blame.
Children become apathetic, often do not care about a thing.
From several articles and research mentioned that, one blow damaging millions of brain cells of our child. The results of Lise Gliot's study, concluded in children who are still in the growth of the brain that in the golden age (the first 2-3 years of life, red), loud and snap out of the parents can abort the brain cells that are growing.
While at the moment the mother is giving soft caress while nursing, brain series formed beautifully.
Lise Gliot's own research is done alone on his son by installing a brain recording cable connected to a computer monitor so that it can see any changes that occur in the development of his son's brain.
"The results are amazing, when nursing formed a beautiful series, but when he was surprised and a little loud to his son, a beautiful circuit ballooned like a balloon, then broke apart and there was a change of color. This is just screaming, "he said.
From the results of this study, clearly the effect of anger on children greatly affect the development of his brain. If this is done uncontrollably, it is not likely to disrupt the child's own brain structure.
"Therefore, we must be careful in scolding his son," Not only that, anger also disrupts the function of important organs in the body. Not only the brain, but also the heart, heart and others.
The attachment of the relationship of children and parents is very influential for the development of the brain and psycologisnya, do not worry about the child become whiny and spoiled.
So .. Hopefully I do not snap again especially at the age of 1-6 years of the child because this is "the golden age" that can damage his emotional intelligence.
Let yuk always give sincere compliments and hugs of affection to our children in order to become an intelligent child.