There is a story, when a husband cries to his friend.
The friend asked, "Why are you sobbing like this?"
The husband replied, "My wife is sick with a fever"
His friend asked again, "So love you so that the wife is sick fever just to cry very deeply like this?
The husband replied, "Do you know who my wife is?".
Then the husband told his friend, I'm poor, do not have a permanent job & every day my family only eat with peanuts, even if I go home.
If I do not come home because I get what "to eat most my wife just drink water or fast.
One day my family-in-law invited us to visit her home, by chance my wife came from a wealthy family.
As I sat together with my in-laws & other family at the dining table with a sumptuous meal, I did not find my wife. Then I asked my mother-in-law,
"Where is she?" My mother-in-law replied, "Your wife is in the kitchen, she's looking for beans ..... She says she's tired of dish and meat dishes, so she really wants to eat peanuts"
Upon hearing that my father-in-law instantly hugged me saying, "Thank you my son-in-law you have earned my son's good nourishment, until" he is tired of eating meat & instead wants to eat peanuts. "
At that moment my chest was pressed, holding back tears.
Then when we got home we could no longer hold back tears, as I hugged my wife tightly ...
"How much you keep my honor before others, my wife even though it is your own parents, while I know every day you live short here, even to no eating at all."
My wife just replied, "I am obliged to keep your honor, Because wife is husband & husband's clothes is wife's clothes, so wife is honor of her husband, and vice versa husband is honor for his wife".
SEMOGA IS USEFUL.
Indonesia
SEORANG ISTRI MENUTUPI KEMISKINAN SUAMINYA.
Ada sebuah kisah, ketika seorang suami menangis kepada sahabatnya.
Sahabatnya itu pun bertanya, "Kenapa kau menangis tersedu-sedu seperti ini?"
Sang suami menjawab, "Istriku sedang sakit demam"
Sahabatnya bertanya lagi, "Sebegitu cintanyakah kau?Sehingga istri sakit demam saja sampai menangis sangat dlm seperti ini?
Sang suami menjawab, "Kau tahu siapa istriku?".
Lalu sang suami menceritakan pada sahabatnya, Aku ini miskin, tdk punya pekerjaan tetap & setiap hari keluargaku hanya makan dngn kacang,itu pun jika aku pulang.
Jika aku tak pulang karena blm mendapat apa "untuk dimakan paling istriku hanya minum air atau berpuasa.
Suatu hari keluarga mertuaku mengundang kami untuk berkunjung ke rumahnya, kebetulan istriku berasal dari keluarga kaya.
Saat aku duduk berkumpul bersama mertuaku & keluarga yang lain di meja makan dengan hidangan yang mewah, aku tidak menemukan istriku. Lalu aku bertanya kepada ibu mertuaku,
"Dimanakah dia ibu?". Ibu mertuaku menjawab, "Istrimu sedang di dapur, dia mencari kacang.....Katanya dia sudah bosan dngn hidangan lauk & daging, sehingga dia sangat ingin makan kacang"
Ketika mendengar itu ayah mertuaku langsung memelukku sambil berkata,... "Terima kasih menantuku kau telah mencukupi nafkah anakku dngn baik, sampai "dia bosan makan daging & malah ingin mencoba makan kacang."
Saat itu dadaku tersesak, menahan tangis.
Lalu saat pulang ke rumah kami aku tak bisa lagi menahan tangis, sambil ku peluk erat istriku ...
"Betapa engkau sangat menjaga kehormatanku di hadapan orang lain wahai istriku walau pun itu orang tuamu sendiri, sedangkan aku tahu setiap hari kau hidup kekurangan disini, bahkan sampai tdk makan sama sekali."
Istriku hanya menjawab, "Aku berkewajiban menjaga kehormatanmu, Karena istri adalah pakaian suami & suami adalah pakaian istri. Karena itu istri adalah kehormatan suaminya, begitu juga pun sebaliknya suami adalah kehormatan bagi isterinya".
SEMOGA BERMAMFAAT