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II was a dedicated student since my childhood who yearly could find some time for serials and talk shows. Although I was intending to watch cartoons and dramas in the evening after completing my home works.
I lost my only recreation when I joined the crypto world last year. I was HODLING BTC which I swapped for some token right before its PUMP. It was like losing 800$ which made me discouraged and I went on break.
All of us know Breaks are good when we aren't mentally stable. So it's better to rest rather doing shit. I logged out of my all social media accounts and hibernated for a week which lately turned to three days only and I came back online after three days. During my break from the online world, I confronted a youtube video telling Top 10 Damaras of the Pakistan drama industry.
Oh!!!
I am at the right yoke. Opening the video helped me to choose a drama named "Esi ha tanhai" which is something like "There is such loneliness" in English yet it's not the precise one.
The first episode was amazingly full of fun and giggles. A lady was throwing utensils towards a boy in the university canteen saying that "Why are you late", giving the scene a humorous whiff. Sooner they were sitting at the same table to have some eatables for them.
This made me smile and I whispered,
Love conquers all.
The serial proceeds and at some point the female protagonist insisted to prove the truth fullness of her love through awareness. She entirely fusses the thought and stops attending to the boy.
During a conversation with her sister, she came to realize that it's a matter of trust in love and without TRUST there is NO love so she crammed her phone with bluffs and leaves to prove the celibacy of her LOVE. Her phone is robbed on the university road and the evil spread of those videos and pictures which she named " proofs of love" are now circulated to social media and everyone started blaming her.
As consequence, the boy's family disagrees to adopt her as a daughter-in-law, her sister gets divorced, her mother poisoned her and left her in the hospital as an "anonymous dead body".
Her mother thought she was dead yet she isn't, she spent her comma period in hospital where a sweeper rapped her and she got pregnant.
Since she isn't pregnant when she was admitted to the hospital, and a comma woman can't perceive at her own so a doctor protects her right against this brutality, and the culprit is prisoned.
From her family news, they have left the town because of the vicious words of the society, boy marries her sister as compensation for his actions that he asked for LOVE PROOFS. He believes himself guilty for this act and responsible for all the happenings.
Her sister files a case against the culprits(who snatched the phone and circulated the content) thinking that the victim(lady protagonist) is no more.
Here comes the twist, when they all gathered in the court and SHE enters the hall leaving everyone astonished.
She speaks the story and made her listeners damp both emotionally and weepy. The words of her touched me deep was,
"Falling in love isn't wrong, try to prove it in the wrong way is what is worst"
What if that boy didn't inquire her to prove her love? What if she was definitive enough to avoid giving proofs for LOVE. If he hadn't raised a question for pictures, she hadn't recorded that, her family hasn't moved, she wasn't poisoned by her mother nor she was rapped by a sweeper and so on...
So,
Where is the stance?
"Only love when you don't need to prove it and your partner don't ask do shameful acts as a proof" else you will destroy yourself as well your whole family.
Please be careful and watch the full drama These is suchlonelinesss episode 1. It has many more lessons to learn especially for girls.
Don't forget to turn in the ENGLISH SUBTITLES if you aren't a Pakistani.
Let me know if you learned something from this story?
[Cross posted] (https://www.uptrennd.com/post-detail/there-is-such-loneliness-a-review~ODUxNzY5)
©Mahnoor Danish.