One faithful day, I, nma and Annie (their pet names), we all went to the cafeteria to eat lunch. While we were slowly and stylishly munching our meals and licking lips in the usual girl’s manner, two cute boys walked up to our table. One was fair in complexion, the other chocolate skinned. They wanted to join us in our table. Anita smiled and looked at us. We finally obliged them and that was how we all got talking after meal. They introduced themselves as Andrew and Stanley. They were both law students but in their 400level. They were both tall and stylish. Stanley took interest in me and I kind of liked him too. He seems so different and well mannered. I would say he was a perfect gentleman. He has a lovely smile and I loved his dark skin color, I don’t know if the dark porn guys I have watched messed with my mind. We became friends and we were seen all around campus together but not in secluded places or at night (against the school rule). His friend Andrew, found love in the eyes of chidinma. It was like a double date thing most times. They were also fun to be with. Anita already has a boyfriend, as she told us, but he is based in Uyo. She claims not to be interested in any school boyfriend. According to her, school boyfriends has nothing to offer. For me, I didn’t want anything from any of them. I was pretty comfortable and I never lacked anything, so it wasn’t about the money. I wanted to have fun and experience the other side of life. I was burning of amorous desires…at 18, I haven’t kissed a guy before. My lips suddenly became dry and I could see cracks and no matter the amount of lip gloss I wear, it still feels dry. Those porn videos messed up my mind. I graduated to visiting porn sites on the internet and stream live videos.
Being with Stanley was a lot of fun, as we chatted and talked over the phone. Soon our friendship started getting intimate as we discuss and talked about sex and relationship. I was naïve to a lot of things he said. I just flow along so I won’t appear to be a baby. I was seen as a big girl in school. One of the hottest girl on campus. If I tell Stanley I haven’t even kissed a guy, I am sure he will burst into laughter. Soon we started chatting dirty and he was quite experienced. He told me about his childhood, life story and his family. His dad, an oil magnate, owns an oil well in river state, his mum, a staff of NNPC. They are well to do and he is the only son of his parents, so they ensure he never lack anything although his parents are divorced and the dad remarried, he has 2 other step sisters. He was so gentle and you won’t imagine he was born into a life of affluence. He grew up in London before his mum insists he comes to Nigeria to school and also experience the culture of his father’s land.
Gradually I fell in love with him and we started dating. I was eager to have a boyfriend, someone I can fulfil my fantasies with. He ticked every box I desired in a guy. There was no dull moment with him and I just loved his aura. Also an intelligent law student, he has tutored me on several occasions on some law courses. I was already in my 200level when we became official…lovers. I told Anita about my decision to date him. She tried to dissuade me at first but when she saw I wasn’t going to bulge, she gave me her approval and warned me to be careful, so I won’t be heartbroken. I didn’t care, I have found the love of my life…so I thought and I threw all cautions to the wind. Chidinma, on the other hand, hit it off with Andrew. They grew quite close and had a lot in common. We talked about it when we are in the room and we fantasize getting married to Andrew and Stanley and how cute our babies will be…white elephant dreams. Of course we were young and it wasn’t abnormal to dream and have fantasies. I knew before long, I would offer my virginity to him, since we were both in love, we can still get married. I just wanted him to be my first and last. If wishes were horses…
