People cry over everything. This is as a result of the amount of pain that courses through them at the moment.
Having to forget this pain requires a lot of will and maturity.
However that's not the point of this piece. You see, lots of people who hurt others might not feel the same urge in a few years, what happens to the individual who has been hurt then? What if the biggest and most painful experience of your life was just a phase for the person who hurt you?
For instance, youths tend to play around when they are not yet fully mature. A young man might have 2 or 3 girlfriends and when they find out, they get hurt and lash out on other young men thus spreading the hurt.
Now, the chances that the architect of these broken hearts will remain the same way (as a player) are quite low. In the sense that maturity sets in and he soon outgrows his need to own more than one woman or even break hearts. He moves on from this behavior and becomes a responsible young man, leaving behind countless broken hearts which might be, at this point in his life, seen by him as 'childishness'.
The purpose of this write up is not necessarily to tell people to be faithfull because eventually we all do as we please.
The purpose of this write up is to reach out to those who are still tied down with hurt from someone who literally has outgrown the circumstances that led to them getting hurt.
Do not allow yourself to be used.
Everyone features in other people's growth stories but it totally does not have to be at the detriment of your sanity.
The Holy Bible teaches that we guard our hearts with all diligence.
There's nothing wrong with being in love with someone, it is beautiful in all its entirety, however, do not lose yourself while trying to fit into someone else's mold because your heart clicks with theirs.
Love is quite feverish and before you realize you're, instead of being 'the one' just a part of someone's growth process, it might be too late.
Prepare for anything.
Expect nothing when you love and know that anyone can move on.
Do not stay back at the spot that they left you.
As always, be happy.
And when you eventually wake up from your hurt slumber, remember to live, for yourself . 😍😍😘😘