He can not sit down with you, and even if you can not even argue about a clever simple matter, it means that your ties with that person are already broken. Unfortunately, you can not hate each other and feed any other feeling. Neither the respect nor the love remains on either side. Everything you do, you say, will sink into each other mutually. When you show the east you will understand that the west, you will never find the middle way. Sad but true. Because it's everything from the beginning. Whatever happened, it has fallen in time, your needle is haystack. Lost value; as you call him, he calls you. You two are in the same direction, but you are on separate flights.
A lot of water flows from under the bridge. One of your stones will flow away. You will be able to contact each other and you will be able to receive no more news after a while. You will end up with your ignorance, you will end up with the 'willers' and 'you do not know' each other against each other. But when one will be hurt, one will wander from this world; that's when the 'ah' will be called the last ten time. All the sorrows, all the sorrows are puddled in a clap, flying into the air. From your past history. You will not even remember what you are angry at for what you are.
But..
Then it is time; I will be out of business.