The Narcissist will make demands and commands and if you do not follow through, you become enemy number one. She will ask you to do things that she would never do for you. Because of her lack of empathy for others, she is unable to look and understand how her actions may affect others. She will do outrageous things that may make most you wonder what the hell is wrong with them. And when confronted with it, it is either your fault or you caused them to do what they did.
They are never accountable for anything that is negative but anything that is positive they will boast and brag about it. This is the kind of individual that can go from zero to sixty in a second without the slightest sign that something was about to erupt in simple or petty matters.
A narcissist is a weak person that can not bear the possibility of losing an argument about anything so in order to win the argument they believe the louder they speak will allow them to be able to shut you down or your words would not come across because while you were talking they were not listening.
The narcissist would project their feelings about you unto you and make it seem like you are the villain. They will claim you are hitting them or mistreating them but it is they that are the ones inflicting damage but they are afraid that you do it to them so they will get an easy pass from others.
