While working in the company, there was a very beautiful female colleague who jumped out of the building in love.It suddenly occurred to me that people are so fragile that they always seem to love themselves through the care and affection of others.If one day there is no one in the world to love you and to listen to you to understand you -- almost every one of us has such moments in our lives, we all have to jump.
I remember when I was a middle-aged schoolteacher, and in an accident she lost her beloved companion forever.After graduation from college I once again return to campus, once again met the female teacher, I was surprised to find she was not gaunt old, rather than their peers with a fresh face, for your most respected teacher, I can't ask any more.Many years later, many of my classmates and I have settled abroad. We usually don't have much contact with each other, and we have fewer opportunities to meet each other.At her memorial service, I was surprised to find that all the students in our class had arrived, and that all her students were standing here almost all the time.I suddenly realized that the unknown but always respected female teacher's vivid face was the one that knew how to save herself and her own heart.
I also remember that I was a teacher when I was in primary school, and in that accident, she lost her love for herself.She cut her wrists more than once, and soon after the accident she committed suicide, leaving her young children behind.She didn't love herself, she loved her too much.Her husband's love makes her feel the beauty of the world, but when the good things are trampled on, she destroys herself.
Learn to love yourself, only in this way can you be disciplined and correct yourself to understand your responsibilities.People's life is long, there are many times no one will push us, exhort us, guide us.Even our dearest and most sincere friends will not always be with us.The care we have.
And caresses can be lost at any time.At this time, we should learn to cultivate a branch to water fertilizer, and cultivate ourselves to become a small and brave young tree.
Let us learn to love yourself, don't abuse demanding themselves, but when we are in pain and helpless isolated, must independence through a dark rainy night of no moon and no star, in our independent supporting the suffering no one could share for us, we must learn to give yourself a bunch of flowers every day, give yourself a smile every day.With a good sense of foreboding and good luck to survive.
It may be said that this is a form of self-deception, but if a brief deception can lead to lasting real happiness, and the joy of all loved ones.What about self-deception?
Learn to love yourself, is a kind of respect for yourself, can make our life more rich and health, also can let our soul more free and vigorous, allow us to become the master of his own spirit.
Learn to love yourself!We will truly understand the meaning of life.
I appreciate your feedback & up vote!
@2018 wonder21 All rights reserved.