I am so heartbroken. I thought I had gotten over him but just a sight of his wedding picture last Saturday and it is tears all over again. This is a man I loved so much. I loved him with all my heart, all my soul and my body. At first I never wanted to date him. This is not because he is not handsome or goodlooking. He is a tall lanky dark complexioned guy with a fine face and cute smile. He may not have six packs but he surely had got the charm to get any lady to fall in love with him.
I never wanted to date him at first because he is my colleague in the office. I have always been against dating a colleague but my friends kept talking about how perfect we look together and after so much persuasion, I decided to give it a try. I believe in loyalty in relationships and when I love, I love wholeheartedly.
I gave him three years. Three years of love and devotion. Two years ago, He proposed and I accepted and our wedding was fixed for last year. During this time he cheated on me countless times. He was a serial cheat but I always believed he would change after all, change is the only constant thing in life.
He got two ladies pregnant and oh! I should have left then but I didn't. He knew the right people to call and ask to plead on his behalf and before I know it, I have forgiven him. Once his mistress met me at his house and insisted I leave the house that night because she's pregnant for him it took the intervention of neighbours that night and a payment of 30k for her to go. Not to talk of how much I sacrificed for him. I even contributed to pay his parents house rent. I saved up so much for the wedding. Always bought gifts for his mum And siblings even contributed for his brothers marriage. Then everything was set for our wedding. Cards have gone out, hall paid for, wedding stuff bought. Souvenir ready. Three wesks , just three weeks to go and the prophet told his mother I've got her son in bondage that if he marries me he will die young and like nollywood they called off the wedding. The day came and went before my own eyes and like a movie I was still single. Two months later he started dating the receptionist at the studio we went to take our prewedding pix. Two days ago they got married. Yeah my souvenir was used as their souvenir. They made use of things I bought with my money. One year plus and I'm still single. Too afraid to put my heart out there and try again. Now he left me broken and wounded but he is happy. I have forgiven him a long time . I thought have healed but seeing the wedding pictures on Facebook one of our mutual friends shared and I can't control the tears.
Okay you read to the end, this is a true life story. Not all relationships ends happily ever after. This lady suffered this and it damaged her and now she no longer believes in love or trust any man. Can someone move on from somethimg like this?
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