What if i told you that your partner might be hiding something from you?
Now hold on there, all of you with a jealous streak… we really didn’t mean to make it sound like that, but rather… what if your partner is keeping you in the dark about a few kinks you would never guess he/she has?
Here is five top kinks you might be surprised to find out your significant one might just be into:
#1 Watching you, watching me
It’s not uncommon for couples, or even casual sex partners, to want to watch each other while masturbating, and eye-contact makes it a bonding experience that can be very rewarding, especially if your objective is to capture your partner’s undivided attention. Attention span, believe it or not, can sometimes vane, even during sex, due to daily stresses and random thoughts, and visual stimulation can help in keeping you and your partner “on task”.
2# Bare essentials
Does your partner like to go commando? It might be worth inquiring whether he/she might be into bearing it all underneath a single layer of clothing, perhaps even a sheer one.
Depending on the setting, clothes-play has the potential of making for a rather unforgettable experience.
3# Private muse
If you or your partner feel comfortable with your bodies, it might be refreshing to learn that there are professional photographers who specialize in erotic portraits, and even offer makeover services. While such service can be on the pricier side, it certainly makes it for a lasting memento, with far better picture quality than your smartphone.
4# Roleplay
One thing is certain: roleplay isn’t for everybody, and it’s hard to get into it for those who aren’t gifted with a certain twisted creativity. This is why most people who are into sexual roleplay don’t generally make it known, as they’d rather not try their luck, only to feel disappointed by an underwhelming experience.
Unfortunately, this also leads to discount the possibility of rewarding roleplay, based on a set of preconceived notions. At any rate… it never hurts to ask.
5# Dirty talk
Not unlike walking through a minefield, a penchant for dirty talk isn’t something that you can just try with your partner without the risk of a potential, and harsh rebuke. There is a fine line between sensual dirty-talk, and being plain rude. While one would assume that a good rule of thumb would be to simply ask a partner if he/she is into it, it’s always best to simply spend due time getting to know your partner well, perhaps by introducing a few utterances, in the heat of the moment, while monitoring his/her response.