Hello everyone! Today I was drawn to philosophical themes. Very often a person chooses for himself the position of the victim. He resigns himself to circumstances and stop fighting. He says, he's powerless, everything's against him. According to him, everyone except him is to blame for his problem. This is a very convenient position. Others often begin to feel sorry for you, to support, to convince you, that you're a very good, strong and can do this. But man continues to act like the victim. In the end everyone bothers to comfort him. We can say, that we are not to blame, that the circumstances in which we find ourselves are to blame, but this is no reason for whining, resentment and anger. Man is a intelligent being, he has a brain and he has to use it. From any situation you can find a way, any circumstance can be overcome, but you need to act and not to lay on the couch. I believe, that we are the creators of our destiny and happiness. Of course, everyone had circumstances, when a person is really powerless, he needs emotional relaxation. But this state cannot last forever, it is impossible to always take the position of the victim.
You can treat a problem as a nuisance, or you can treat it as a push for development. In psychology there is the term "comfort zone". A person rarely leaves the comfort zone on their own, in most cases he needs a push. Just the exit from the comfort zone guarantees the development of personality and achievement of success. It's like saying - all, that doesn't kill us, - makes us stronger. When people complain to me about their life, their work, I often ask, why don't you change your work, don't you change your life? Often people get lost with the answer and find a bunch of excuses and reasons not to change anything. So why complain then? Even if you can't make a difference, change how you feel about her. Many may think, that I know nothing about life, that they live much harder than me. I'm not going to argue. I just express my opinion and urge you to act instead of take the attitude of a victim and complain.
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