The age-old question: "What do women want?" Interests, at times, not only men, but also women themselves. So that's all difficult in a woman's nature.
We decided to ask women what gives them a sense of their own importance for men, and an expert in psychology commented on their answers.
More often call us by name
"Until the relationship became very close, we would like to hear your name more often, and not affectionate nicknames - a rabbit, a kitten, a fish. When a man calls a woman by name, his importance in our eyes increases. Otherwise, we begin to assume that he is afraid to call us by the name of another girl. "
The psychologist claims that when a girl often hears her name from a loved one, she realizes that he is singling out her name. This is important for her, especially at the first stages of the relationship. Also, many girls think that affectionate nicknames sound insincere.
When the relationship is strong enough, the nicknames, sometimes even unusual, arise by themselves and sound naturally. But when a couple together more than one year and someone abruptly refuses a tender nickname, it is worthwhile to sort out - perhaps in this way one of the partners expresses discontent towards their half or wants to move away from it.
Keep words and promises
"For us, it is important that a man backs up words or promises with actions. When further chatter does not come, it hurts and offends us. It is important for us that a man is honest with us, regardless of the stage of relations. "
Girls save important resources for them. If a man can become a father a huge number of times, then a woman becomes a mother a limited number of times. Due to different physiological needs, emotional reactions in men and women are also different. A beautiful sex is more critical when choosing a partner. It is important for women to feel men's reliability and protection.
Know how to listen and hear us
"If men need to speak out, we are always ready to listen to them and try to understand. But we would like it to be mutual, even when it seems to them that the story is trifling and not worth their attention. It is also important for us that the men remember what we are saying to them. "
Many men reflect more pragmatically and abstractly. They try to generalize and process the information in order to make the best decision. Girls believe that behind this lies inattention to detail, and hence the indifference of men to their problems.
Sometimes it is important for girls not to hear a clear answer, which will solve their problems, but get support and sympathy. The man most often perceives her stories and stories as a request to resolve the situation. This difference in perception is important to realize, then there will be less disagreement. Women do not need to demand unrealistic, and men should better understand what lies behind her request or story.
More tactile sensations
"We are important tactile sensations, not only sexually. We like to take men by the arm or when they hold our hand. "
When a woman holds a man by the arm - it's more a gesture of courtesy and courtesy, which is also important in the relationship. But when a woman's hand is in a man's hand, for a couple - it's a symbol of closeness and feelings, and for others it's a sign that there is a couple in front of them.
More initiative
"I would like more initiative from men. So that they generate interesting ideas that will please us and impress us. This does not always require large financial expenditure. For example, a spontaneous walk in an unusual place or a picnic will also please us. "
When a man plans dating scenarios, he shows his ingenuity, his interest and leadership. It is also a sign that such a relationship may have a good future. It is important for women to feel that men are seeking their disposition, which is important in the beginning of relations.
Communicate with us more often
"Call and write us messages about and without reason. We are very pleased when the men are interested in us, even if they just ask: "How was your day?".
It is important for us to know that you remember about us and are waiting for you soon