It is hard to define one's happiness for it depends what would make a person happy , right? But we are all the same in one truth at the end of each day , we are all humans. Gratefulness id being thankful for what youbhave now , no matter how big or small it is . I believe it is one way for a person to be happy . I know it's not bad to dream big and reach for high goals , but too much can make you a greedy one . And by that , sometiones people tend to crave for too much , and sometimes things that can't be afford anymore. There are also tumes when you feerl envy on what others have that you do not. And that's usually where bad things start to happen.
What if you have this strength?. This special strength of courage. Courage to accept the fact and be matured enough. Accepting that everything is not meant to be yours . It is understandable that there are people deprived of so many things in the past that makes them want everything this time in their lives when they are already earning. We have to accept that people’s situations are different from each other. If this is what makes them happy, then let it be as long as they got it in a very good manner , i mean not crashing somebody else's life just to get what they wanted. Maturity is also a key. Having the ability to weigh between wants and needs. Being matured is not about age, it is about the way we look into things and make the best decisions out of the things we wanted to happen in our lives. Say like an expensive bag or shoes for a woman , i believe we can survive without those , you can get it all you want if you have enough funds for it , but having to have lots of debt just to impress others? well, i think that doesn't spell maturity. Get what i'm saying ? try your best everyday , to be the person to have logical decisions that will definitely bring you a better life.
Above all this , i believe Love is really the thing. Love has many definitions.Different meaning by different people. But still , we have ONE LOVE , as whatmy sissum 
