If you find yourself doing any of the following,it is a sign of immaturity and you need to grow. Please note that this list is
not exhaustive.
(1) Keeping malice
(2) Rejecting food because you are
angry with your wife
(3) Abusing each other
(4) Reporting to a third party
(5) Sexual denial, having no interest
in sex
(6) Hatred and lovelessness
(7) Failure to provide for the family
(8) Night crawling
(9) Nagging and murmuring
(10) Failure to apologize when you
are wrong
(11) Failure to pray together with
your spouse
(12) Failure to forgive your spouse
(13) Embarrassing your spouse
openly
(14) Comparing your spouse with
others
(15) Failure to go for counseling
when your marriage is in trouble
(16) Failure to be committed to
your marriage
(17) Thinking of divorce
(18) Keeping things secret from
your spouse
(19) Allowing friends and family
members to direct the affairs of
your home
(20) Laziness and failure to work
(21) Wife battering
(22) Talking about your 'ex"
boyfriend or girlfriend often
(23) Unfriendly and uncaring attitude
(24) Wasteful spending
(25) Referring to old hurts often
(26) Taking vengeance of every
offence and refusing to reconcile etc.
This is attitude of many married people.